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starmekitten
-= Forum Pistolera =-
United Kingdom
6370 Posts |
 Posted - 03/04/2007 : 10:38:25
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We recently received the tragic news that on the 9th of February forum member Ed Banky/John Dietzel (Real name Jensen Reed Oler) took his own life after a long battle with depression. He left behind a note with a message to Frank Black that read "Thanks for the music" and asking that the people of the forum be told. We know that this place meant a lot to him. He wanted you all to know.
So be it exchanging jokes and ideas in posts, meeting up with forumites for beers at concerts or just backing and forthing over which songs are best, we will all miss him.
Jensen's obituary can be found here where there is a guestbook for those who wish to comment and of course feel free to share your experiences and thoughts here in this thread. |
Edited by - starmekitten on 03/04/2007 22:34:50 |
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coastline
> Teenager of the Year <
USA
3111 Posts |
Posted - 03/04/2007 : 10:56:32
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My God, that breaks my heart. I'm not sure what else to say.
 Please pardon me, for these my wrongs. |
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TRANSMARINE
* Dog in the Sand *
USA
2002 Posts |
Posted - 03/04/2007 : 11:39:51
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This is horrible, horrible news. My thoughts go out to his family, loved ones, and friends...which means myself and all other forum members here, as I see us as indeed family bound by a great love of and for a common interest...that being the music and words of Frank.
Things like this really go to show how much it is necessary, and above all else, EASY to give thanks and respect and love for all those who somehow occupy our life...and how easy it is to forget how fragile and special we are as individuals who comprise that family of humanity...and how quickly it can go away.
I love and respect you all.
Rest in peace, ED BANKY. I miss you.
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His name is Dalton. He's got a degree in philosophy.
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tisasawath
= Cult of Ray =
Wallis and Futuna Islands
783 Posts |
Posted - 03/04/2007 : 11:59:41
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i always liked to read you
i'll go play a fb song, i don't know which, i'll just play all I have, just in case
rest in peace |
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Carl
- A 'Fifth' Catholic -
Ireland
11546 Posts |
Posted - 03/04/2007 : 12:04:45
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| I was shocked to hear about this. Hope his family and friends are coping with this as best they can. It's saddening and disturbing to hear about the death of a fellow forum member. Rest In Peace. |
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s_wrenn
* Dog in the Sand *
Ireland
1851 Posts |
Posted - 03/04/2007 : 12:43:59
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Rest in peace. You will be sadly missed.
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fbc
-= Modulator =-
United Kingdom
4903 Posts |
Posted - 03/04/2007 : 13:18:13
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And there was me thinking his real name was Edmund.
Holy crap. He's turning into Kate Moss - edbanky 'o6
(Thanks again for the Salt Lake City show!) |
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Carolynanna
>> Denizen of the Citizens Band <<
Canada
6556 Posts |
Posted - 03/04/2007 : 13:26:07
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Rest in Peace Jensen.
I'm sorry life was so hard.
It is a comforting thought to know that he found some solace here.
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For Chrissakes have a cup of tea. |
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coastline
> Teenager of the Year <
USA
3111 Posts |
Posted - 03/04/2007 : 14:02:20
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I think a lot of us knew he was a bit troubled, from his posts. He said a lot about his life in this one: http://forum.frankblack.net/topic.asp?TOPIC_ID=17237. Poor guy. This is one of those times when you wish you'd paid better attention and had the foresight to do something about it. At least that's the sort of thing that goes through my mind when anyone I know takes their own life.
So sad.
Please pardon me, for these my wrongs. |
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billgoodman
>> Denizen of the Citizens Band <<
Netherlands
6213 Posts |
Posted - 03/04/2007 : 14:03:14
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Rest in Peace indeed
I wish his friends and family all the strength they need
to cope with this great lost
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God save the Noisies |
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pixiestu
> Teenager of the Year <
United Kingdom
2564 Posts |
Posted - 03/04/2007 : 14:37:05
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I don't know what to say, even though there is so much that could be said. News like this is just absolutely heartbreaking.
Rest In Peace. |
Edited by - pixiestu on 03/05/2007 15:55:05 |
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Daisy Girl
~ Abstract Brain ~
Belize
5305 Posts |
Posted - 03/04/2007 : 15:39:22
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How, very, very sad.
I am very sorry and I really don't know what else to say. |
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Thomas
* Dog in the Sand *
USA
1615 Posts |
Posted - 03/04/2007 : 16:17:10
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Goodnight-Good-bye
Goodnight
Good-bye
I closed my eyes and died
And followed the sun into space
And I saw your heart floating by
A million things I wanted to say
Don’t end this life today
Don’t end this life this way
Because I’m so close to you now
Don’t take this away
Please stay for one more day
Good-bye I’m floating away
It was so short I wished you had stayed
I say wait
I’m caught up. I’m caught out in space
I say I need you now
I say I need you now
I say I need you now
I need you now
"Our Love is Rice and Beans and Horses Lard" |
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fumanbru
* Dog in the Sand *
Canada
1462 Posts |
Posted - 03/04/2007 : 17:53:04
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Originally posted by fbc
And there was me thinking his real name was Edmund.
me too! he had a great sense of humour. he'll be greatly missed. sad sad news. i remember having a nice chat on soulseek with him right when honeycomb was leaked. i was "borrowing" his files and he replied something like, "hey fu from fbnet! enjoy the gift of frank!"
 "I joined the Cult of Frank/ cause I'm a real go-getter!" |
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ObfuscateByWill
* Dog in the Sand *
USA
1887 Posts |
Posted - 03/04/2007 : 18:28:48
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What a drag. I'll miss seeing his posts.
RIP ed.
 *Take a bite of the chocolate coffin. |
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Crispy Water
= Cult of Ray =
Canada
819 Posts |
Posted - 03/04/2007 : 18:44:36
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Strength, peace, and wisdom to all those he touched.
Nothing is ever something. |
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danjersey
> Teenager of the Year <
USA
2792 Posts |
Posted - 03/04/2007 : 20:39:41
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switchy
- Gigographer -
USA
324 Posts |
Posted - 03/04/2007 : 22:13:27
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kelladwella
= Cult of Ray =
Germany
729 Posts |
Posted - 03/04/2007 : 23:42:38
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What a tragedy.
Going through his archived posts makes me really sad.
I hope he has found his peace now. |
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cassandra is
> Teenager of the Year <
France
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remig
* Dog in the Sand *
France
1734 Posts |
Posted - 03/05/2007 : 01:14:08
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That's so sad.
Condoleances to the family, that I'ld like to thank for letting us know.
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IceCream
= Quote Accumulator =
USA
1850 Posts |
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1965
= Cult of Ray =
Australia
799 Posts |
Posted - 03/05/2007 : 04:22:26
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A sad day. Condolences to family and friends. RIP.
***** |
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gapu
- FB Fan -
Austria
106 Posts |
Posted - 03/05/2007 : 05:18:06
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oh my god, this is tragical!
i never knew him, because i was not too much around lately...
but do i really need to know more to know that this is one of the saddest threads i ever read? guess not.
i don't know what else to say... there's nothing left to say, but goodbye! RIP
Condolences to family and friends! |
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vilainde
>> Denizen of the Citizens Band <<
Niue
7442 Posts |
Posted - 03/05/2007 : 05:32:10
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Here's the obituary from the funeral home:
http://www.meaningfulfunerals.net/fh/obituaries/obituary.cfm?o_id=92978&fh_id=10655
I felt awful when hearing the news. It's both very sad and nice to go through his posts and have a look back at the discussions we had with him. He was funny and clever. He came to France last year and I wish we had met. Bye edbanky.
Denis
"Can you hear me? I aint got shit to say." |
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two reelers
* Dog in the Sand *
Austria
1036 Posts |
Posted - 03/05/2007 : 06:27:35
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how small all my problems suddenly are
I joined the cult of Souled American / 'cause they are a damn' fine band |
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tobafett
* Dog in the Sand *
USA
1713 Posts |
Posted - 03/05/2007 : 10:03:54
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| So long, edbanky. rip |
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Fast Man
- FB Fan -
16 Posts |
Posted - 03/05/2007 : 10:52:23
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Oh my gosh! Is this the guy I met at the Salt Lake City show and who recorded it for us? I think he and I were the only real fans at the show. Everyone else was talking to the top of their lungs.
Wow, I am stunned. He was really cool and very friendly. What a huge loss.
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coastline
> Teenager of the Year <
USA
3111 Posts |
Posted - 03/05/2007 : 11:09:11
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Yeah, that was him. He seemed embarrassed for both the quality of the recording and the inattentiveness of the crowd. I'm curious -- is that his deep voice between some of the songs. Looking at his picture (he was a great-looking guy), I can imagine him have a fairly deep, authoritative voice.
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Fast Man
- FB Fan -
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Posted - 03/05/2007 : 11:29:01
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From what I remember he did not have a deep sounding voice.
The funny thing is I did not see his picture posted on this site before the show. I just saw a guy sitting in back with recording equipment and I asked if it he was the person from this site. He was very friendly and we chatted for a few minutes.
I would almost bet that it was not him talking though. That is rule number one when you are a taper. Dont talk!  EVERYONE was talking really loud though. It was the worst show I had ever been to as far as audience participation.
It will now be a show I remember forever since reading this tragic news.
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darwin
>> Denizen of the Citizens Band <<
USA
5454 Posts |
Posted - 03/05/2007 : 11:57:25
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| I want to pass my condolences to his family and hope they can find some comfort in knowing that Jensen was a loved member of our community. He will be missed, but maybe memories of him can help us all to remember to appreciate the people, ideas, and worlds that we love. |
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Frog in the Sand
-+ Le premiere frog +-
France
2715 Posts |
Posted - 03/05/2007 : 12:57:10
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Saddest thread ever.
Adios amigo :-(
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BLACKOLERO le only Frank Black / Pixies site 100% in français |
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mrgrieves1971
= Cult of Ray =
USA
544 Posts |
Posted - 03/05/2007 : 14:38:19
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| So sad. RIP. |
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rodney
- FB Fan -
USA
127 Posts |
Posted - 03/05/2007 : 14:43:17
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| Goodbye Sir. |
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Arm Arm Arm
* Dog in the Sand *
1036 Posts |
Posted - 03/05/2007 : 19:54:20
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| I'm sorry to read this and offer my condolences to his family and friends. |
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floop
= Wannabe Volunteer =
Mexico
15297 Posts |
Posted - 03/05/2007 : 23:51:54
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i was shocked and heartbroken to hear this news (Jensen's sister passed this horrible news along to me last week)..
i've known Jensen since the Frank Black For President / Abstract Plain days.. he was always one of my favorite guys. we traded many bootlegs along the way (he set me up with some serious frank discs). he always extremely smart and insightful and funny..
we met up at the Anaheim Frank show a few months ago and had a good time hanging out before and afterwards..
words can't really describe how much of a shame this is, or how sad.
i just want to say how sorry i am for Jensen and his family..
see ya Jensen. i'll remember you... |
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Ed Banky/ John Dietzel 1974 - 2007
