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jimmy
= Cult of Ray =
USA
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 Posted - 09/08/2006 : 18:38:59
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I've been thinking about <3.
Since I was a kid, I had this idea of love- that for every person there's 1 other person in the world that they were meant to be with forever ( there might be dozens of people that you date and try out along the way, but eventually you find The One and that's it.
I still believe this, which leads me to believe that a lot of people just give up and settle.
You're supposed to meet the love of your life at some great big party at a house on the ocean while you're on vacation.
It's a gigantic world out there, but all these people meet someone at their work and think that's The One. That's not even trying.
I mean, there's supposed to be a hugely romantic beginning, not " We were at the vending machines, and there was only one cup of Spaghetti-Os left, so we shared it. I knew then that I wanted to spend the rest of my life with her."
I guess I'm being too critical; I guess people don't want to be alone, or they just want to have kids and don't want to wait forever.
I still believe in real love, I just think it's very rare. Most people just hook up with somebody that they hate less than everyone else, and convince themselves that it's love.
Does any of this sound reasonable, or do I just sound lonely & bitter? |
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jimmy
= Cult of Ray =
USA
876 Posts |
Posted - 09/08/2006 : 18:44:18
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Or a 4th of July fireworks show- that's a good romantic beginning.
Or a watching a space shuttle launch.
Or at a FB show. |
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jimmy
= Cult of Ray =
USA
876 Posts |
Posted - 09/08/2006 : 18:46:28
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Or on the FB Forum ( <3 kathryn <3 ).
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jimmy
= Cult of Ray =
USA
876 Posts |
Posted - 09/08/2006 : 19:27:30
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And how about movie stars? They fall in love with whoever happens to be cast in the same film. |
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mr.biscuitdoughhead
* Dog in the Sand *
USA
1729 Posts |
Posted - 09/08/2006 : 19:54:49
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Poor jimmy...no one replies to his thread...does that mean no one loves you? I started a thread a while ago, and no one has posted in it. Maybe I'll save this for your advice column.
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mr.biscuitdoughhead
* Dog in the Sand *
USA
1729 Posts |
Posted - 09/08/2006 : 21:10:04
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Originally posted by jimmy
And how about movie stars? They fall in love with whoever happens to be cast in the same film.
I've always thought that was stupid too.
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mr.biscuitdoughhead
* Dog in the Sand *
USA
1729 Posts |
Posted - 09/08/2006 : 21:13:45
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You're making me really depressed, jimmy.
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ScottP
= Cult of Ray =
USA
618 Posts |
Posted - 09/08/2006 : 21:48:36
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I like Jimmy's energy.
I've always been able to love alot of people at the same time. I basically like people. They're funny.
Especially funny are mean people. Not them "mean on the internet types", no. Mean in person people. I always get them laughing. Sometimes post-fight. But, hey....
I think everyone has a pre-determined radius for mate hunting.
My dad thinks the radius gets smaller as you get older. He calls it the "lazy infielder syndrome." Meaning, he'll snag something hit right at him, but he ain't diving for anything. |
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PixieSteve
> Teenager of the Year <
Poland
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Posted - 09/09/2006 : 03:53:30
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there is no one person out there waiting for you. that's ridiculous.
people date, go out, spend time with each other, fall in love with each other. everyone's a potential "the one"
you say finding "the one" should be a big romantic occassion. so what if you meet a girl, really unromantically, and over time you fall in love with her (and you think she feels the same). do you hold off because she can't possibly be "the one"? weird!
and what about people who say they've found "the one" and then it doesn't work out. does that mean they were wrong? so how do you know if you're right or not? or if they WERE "the one" and you still managed to break up, does that mean you're fucked?
"the one" is a depressing thought, not romantic!
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speedy_m
= Frankofile =
Canada
3581 Posts |
Posted - 09/09/2006 : 07:51:00
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quote:
Originally posted by jimmy
I mean, there's supposed to be a hugely romantic beginning, not " We were at the vending machines, and there was only one cup of Spaghetti-Os left, so we shared it. I knew then that I wanted to spend the rest of my life with her."
This sounds perfectly romantic to me. As far as I'm concerned the romance stems from the feelings created inside you by the other person, not the circumstances in which you are placed. Roses are not romantic; being given roses by soemone special is.
he's back jack smoking crack find him if you want to get found
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jimmy
= Cult of Ray =
USA
876 Posts |
Posted - 09/09/2006 : 11:11:34
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I guess what I'm saying is, I don't like Spaghetti-O's.
I'm sure at some point I tried them. They're just not something that I grew up with- probably because my mom loves me. |
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mr.biscuitdoughhead
* Dog in the Sand *
USA
1729 Posts |
Posted - 09/09/2006 : 11:15:16
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SPAGHETTI-O'S ROCK!!!! I think this thread is just a front for you trying to tell us you're sad because you don't like spaghetti-o's. Well, get over it, jimmy! 
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jimmy
= Cult of Ray =
USA
876 Posts |
Posted - 09/09/2006 : 11:30:48
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If someone genuinely likes Spaghetti-O's, then I guess that's fine. I know I'd rather have a hamburger from McDonald's than one that somebody cooked on a grill.
I just don't get how people will eat spaghetti out of a can instead of cooking up some angel hair pasta and then chopping up a tomatoe w/ olive oil and salt & pepper- it tastes a thousand times better and takes only a little more time & money. |
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jimmy
= Cult of Ray =
USA
876 Posts |
Posted - 09/09/2006 : 11:33:45
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And at most of the big supermarkets you can get a potted basil plant for $2.99. Throw it in the sauce, or chop up a couple leaves and put it on a pizza. |
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floop
= Wannabe Volunteer =
Mexico
15297 Posts |
Posted - 09/09/2006 : 11:34:25
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quote:
Originally posted by jimmy
I know I'd rather have a hamburger from McDonald's than one that somebody cooked on a grill.
are you back on the dope Jimmy? |
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jimmy
= Cult of Ray =
USA
876 Posts |
Posted - 09/09/2006 : 11:51:46
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You know what I like even more than a McDonald's hamburger? A rodeo burger from Burger King- there were a couple weeks this summer when I went there every day.
No floop, though I am planning on getting some at the end of the month- I have to have something to look forward to.
But to be completely honest, a couple weeks ago someone gave me a 40mg OC and I shot it ( that doesn't count though, because I'll never say no to a good pill ). |
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Little Black Francis
> Teenager of the Year <
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Posted - 09/09/2006 : 16:44:24
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quote:
Originally posted by jimmy
If someone genuinely likes Spaghetti-O's, then I guess that's fine. I know I'd rather have a hamburger from McDonald's than one that somebody cooked on a grill.
I just don't get how people will eat spaghetti out of a can instead of cooking up some angel hair pasta and then chopping up a tomatoe w/ olive oil and salt & pepper- it tastes a thousand times better and takes only a little more time & money.
What if McDonald's sold spaghetti, would that be better than making it at home?
1. Burger Kings sucks, worst fast food chain
2. If you don't like spaghetti o's you most likely are gay
3. Sharing spaghetti o's on a first date is in fact perfectly romantic
4. Any 2 decent people can get married and have kids, love is irrelevant basically, being able to be friends is the hard part
5. I think you might need to divorce the white lady before you'll find this lover you are looking for
6. I'm high
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mr.biscuitdoughhead
* Dog in the Sand *
USA
1729 Posts |
Posted - 09/09/2006 : 21:39:40
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quote:
Originally posted by Little Black Francis
What if McDonald's sold spaghetti, would that be better than making it at home?
Don't give them ideas, LBF. Tomorrow they might come out with the "McPasta".
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misleadtheworld
* Dog in the Sand *
United Kingdom
1222 Posts |
Posted - 09/10/2006 : 03:17:32
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I saw a little stall in the market of the market town of Kingston-upon-Thames yesterday. It was a McDonalds stall, selling vegetables, with the golden arches all over it. I'm still confused. I might have to see if it's there today and do some more sleuthing.
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Homers_pet_monkey
= Official forum monkey =
United Kingdom
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Posted - 09/10/2006 : 06:33:05
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You share those spaghetti-o's now, you'll be forever sharing, and nobody wants that.
 I'd walk her everyday, into a shady place
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mr.biscuitdoughhead
* Dog in the Sand *
USA
1729 Posts |
Posted - 09/10/2006 : 08:32:07
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Except if you can't finish a whole can of spaghetti-o's. In which case you deserve to die.
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Broken Face
-= Forum Pistolero =-
USA
5155 Posts |
Posted - 09/10/2006 : 08:47:26
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quote:
Originally posted by mr.biscuitdoughhead
quote:
Originally posted by Little Black Francis
What if McDonald's sold spaghetti, would that be better than making it at home?
Don't give them ideas, LBF. Tomorrow they might come out with the "McPasta".
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Seasonally, in New England, they have the McLobster, and i've seen (somewhere on a road trip) the McPizza.
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ScottP
= Cult of Ray =
USA
618 Posts |
Posted - 09/10/2006 : 09:04:20
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| There's something wrong tasting about spaghetti-o's. |
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jimmy
= Cult of Ray =
USA
876 Posts |
Posted - 09/10/2006 : 11:21:36
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I haven't seen them in years, but yeah, they used to have lobster rolls for $4.99, they weren't bad. |
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Superabounder
* Dog in the Sand *
USA
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Posted - 06/23/2007 : 08:52:07
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Is love entirely with the heart? I decide more with my head, and I know I have not found the one. My current gf is really great in so many ways, but there are a few reservations I have. I also don't have that bowled-over in love feeling. That's what drives me crazy: what is it about someone else that is supposed to give me that feeling? Attraction to beauty? Intelligence and the manner in which she speaks to me? What if I'm not attracted to her as much sexually but love her personality? That won't work for me in the end either. Ugggh. Then, should I break up with my gf because I'm not head over heels in love and that's not fair to her?
PS there's nothing wrong with the taste of spaghetti-o's as long as it is the one with the meatballs. The other ones taste like shite.
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kathryn
~ Selkie Bride ~
Belgium
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Posted - 06/23/2007 : 08:58:42
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Originally posted by Superabounder
I'm not head over heels in love and that's not fair to her?
What's not fair to her? I don't get it.
I got some heaven in my head
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mr.biscuitdoughhead
* Dog in the Sand *
USA
1729 Posts |
Posted - 06/23/2007 : 11:22:47
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I'm really confused because I'm in love with my best friend, and I think she feels the same way about me but I'm afraid to say anything 'cos I think it might mess up our friendship.
I really want to be with her but I want everything to stay how it is right now, too. And then she's thinking about moving and... oh well...
"I love you I don't think you care..." |
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PixieSteve
> Teenager of the Year <
Poland
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Posted - 06/23/2007 : 12:28:40
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she is thinking of moving? i thought you were about 13?
"Idiot" is just her sig. |
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Homers_pet_monkey
= Official forum monkey =
United Kingdom
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Posted - 06/23/2007 : 12:50:51
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No she's 13.
I'd walk her everyday, into a shady place
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kathryn
~ Selkie Bride ~
Belgium
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Posted - 06/23/2007 : 13:07:25
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Originally posted by mr.biscuitdoughhead
I'm really confused because I'm in love with my best friend, and I think she feels the same way about me but I'm afraid to say anything 'cos I think it might mess up our friendship.
I really want to be with her but I want everything to stay how it is right now, too. And then she's thinking about moving and... oh well...
Tell her how you feel. Don't wonder 20 years from now about what coudda been.
I got some heaven in my head
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coastline
> Teenager of the Year <
USA
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Posted - 06/23/2007 : 14:47:41
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I know Billy Crystal and Meg Ryan already went over this at length, but I'll pose the question here anyway: Is it really possible for a man and a woman to be (and remain) just friends? Isn't it inevitable what's happening with mr.biscuitdoughhead here? Don't fight it, dude. Like Kathryn said, don't leave yourself wondering what could have been.
Please pardon me, for these my wrongs. |
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tisasawath
= Cult of Ray =
Wallis and Futuna Islands
783 Posts |
Posted - 06/23/2007 : 14:51:35
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3rd that
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AAAAWWWWWRRRIIGGHHTTTTT !! ! |
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Llamadance
> Teenager of the Year <
United Kingdom
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Posted - 06/23/2007 : 15:08:09
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and if you don't tell her, mrbiscuitdoughhead, give her a dildo as a leaving present, so at least she's thinking of you as she climaxes.
No, I don't know that atheists should be considered as citizens, nor should they be considered patriots. This is one nation under God George Bush snr |
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coastline
> Teenager of the Year <
USA
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Posted - 06/23/2007 : 15:11:44
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quote:
Originally posted by Llamadance
and if you don't tell her, mrbiscuitdoughhead, give her a dildo as a leaving present, so at least she's thinking of you as she climaxes.
No, I don't know that atheists should be considered as citizens, nor should they be considered patriots. This is one nation under God George Bush snr
I thought you were more into nipple clamps, Llama.
Please pardon me, for these my wrongs. |
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kathryn
~ Selkie Bride ~
Belgium
15320 Posts |
Posted - 06/23/2007 : 15:39:54
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quote:
Originally posted by coastline
Is it really possible for a man and a woman to be (and remain) just friends?
Not to sound inappropriate but you can be friends with someone and still sleep with them.
I got some heaven in my head
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Llamadance
> Teenager of the Year <
United Kingdom
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Posted - 06/23/2007 : 15:52:04
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quote:
Originally posted by coastline
quote:
Originally posted by Llamadance
and if you don't tell her, mrbiscuitdoughhead, give her a dildo as a leaving present, so at least she's thinking of you as she climaxes.
I thought you were more into nipple clamps, Llama.
Nipple clamps >>>>> not telling someone you love that you love them
No, I don't know that atheists should be considered as citizens, nor should they be considered patriots. This is one nation under God George Bush snr |
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