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starmekitten
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United Kingdom
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 Posted - 08/29/2005 : 15:20:48
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So I have this thing this week and I guess it's a date and you know, the guys nice enough if a bit of an odd chappie and I'm not really used to this sort of thing. To be honest, it's the best possible place to go on a date in the world ever (i.e. a PIXIES gig, everyone got that... PIXIES), so the loud music and all will mean if I flounder at conversation it won't be so important because the evening will be special already. I'm pretty nervous I have to say he's such a lovely guy and I don't want to look like an idiot. We're meeting for a drink before hand and I'm terrified I'll just blush and forget how to talk. He's very endearing, tries hard to be funny and make jokes, he's most cute and take a genuine interest in things.
I hope it's a good evening, but my lack of experience in this sort of thing concerns me.
Basically, I need tips.
What to wear?
What sort of good date tips you have?
any useful information you think I need.
He has also requested that tips from a male prespective may be useful. |
Edited by - starmekitten on 08/29/2005 15:34:45 |
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kathryn
~ Selkie Bride ~
Belgium
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Posted - 08/29/2005 : 15:23:51
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Be yourself.
That goes for both genders.
Sometimes, no matter how shitty things get, you have to just do a little dance. - Frank
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Newo
~ Abstract Brain ~
Spain
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Posted - 08/29/2005 : 15:27:44
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Try not to ogle Frank too much.
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If I were a millionaire I'd buy every carthorse in Ireland and wait. The day is coming when a carthorse will be worth more than a Porsche. |
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Carl
- A 'Fifth' Catholic -
Ireland
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Posted - 08/29/2005 : 15:30:05
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| Make him feel at ease, I suppose. Is this Frank your dating? ;D |
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starmekitten
-= Forum Pistolera =-
United Kingdom
6370 Posts |
Posted - 08/29/2005 : 15:30:44
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I wouldn't ogle frank on a date! that'd be poor form!
and no carl! but possibly the next best thing |
Edited by - starmekitten on 08/29/2005 15:31:52 |
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Carl
- A 'Fifth' Catholic -
Ireland
11546 Posts |
Posted - 08/29/2005 : 15:42:17
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| Seriously, though, maybe he's just shy. I'm sure he's the one who really feels like an idiot. As a bit of an outsider, I know what it's like trying to give a good impression to people socially. It sounds like he's probably nervous about it, and obviously your a bit unsure, just chill out and play it by ear, I suppose. Thinking about these things too much makes it worse [listen to me..'The Voice Of Experience'! ;)], and it's gonna be a fantastic night in any case, see your seeing The Pixies. :) |
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Homers_pet_monkey
= Official forum monkey =
United Kingdom
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Posted - 08/29/2005 : 15:53:25
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Yeah like Kathryn says, just be yourself. Having met you, I can say that that will be impressive enough.
 I'd walk her everyday, into a shady place
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kathryn
~ Selkie Bride ~
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Posted - 08/29/2005 : 15:55:31
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quote:
Originally posted by Homers_pet_monkey
just be yourself. Having met you, I can say that that will be impressive enough.
Awww, monkey, what a sweet thing to say. We love our Tre!
Any boy would be a fool not to like you, Kitty.
Sometimes, no matter how shitty things get, you have to just do a little dance. - Frank
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Homers_pet_monkey
= Official forum monkey =
United Kingdom
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Posted - 08/29/2005 : 16:02:08
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Originally posted by kathryn
quote:
Originally posted by Homers_pet_monkey
just be yourself. Having met you, I can say that that will be impressive enough.
We love our Tre!
Sometimes, no matter how shitty things get, you have to just do a little dance. - Frank
We do indeed.
You see that Tre? "Our Tre".
We own you!
I'd walk her everyday, into a shady place
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kathryn
~ Selkie Bride ~
Belgium
15320 Posts |
Posted - 08/29/2005 : 16:02:54
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We loooooove you and we will protect you from boys who don't appreciate you!
And you will look fabulous. Just layer on the kohl, sister.
Sometimes, no matter how shitty things get, you have to just do a little dance. - Frank
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fbc
-= Modulator =-
United Kingdom
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Posted - 08/29/2005 : 16:05:02
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please ignore me. this is forum stuff on a level well beyond my understanding
to the two of you: enjoy the gig, it'll be hard not too. |
Edited by - fbc on 08/30/2005 02:00:14 |
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Newo
~ Abstract Brain ~
Spain
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Posted - 08/29/2005 : 16:05:44
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You don't have to be nervous either, if he doesn't like you he obviously is an empty box so it's a win/win situation.
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Homers_pet_monkey
= Official forum monkey =
United Kingdom
17125 Posts |
Posted - 08/29/2005 : 16:10:52
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By the way Kitty, where are you seeing the Pixies? It's Ok, if it's Manchester I won't gatecrash your date.
I'd walk her everyday, into a shady place
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Carl
- A 'Fifth' Catholic -
Ireland
11546 Posts |
Posted - 08/29/2005 : 16:11:09
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| How about Dancing Tips For Girls (And Boys)? ;) |
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Homers_pet_monkey
= Official forum monkey =
United Kingdom
17125 Posts |
Posted - 08/29/2005 : 16:11:44
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Oh I can help you there Carl.
I'd walk her everyday, into a shady place
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Carl
- A 'Fifth' Catholic -
Ireland
11546 Posts |
Posted - 08/29/2005 : 16:13:04
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Give us a few steps! |
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therewererumours
* Dog in the Sand *
Ireland
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Posted - 08/29/2005 : 16:13:05
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quote:
Originally posted by kathryn
Be yourself.
Sometimes, no matter how shitty things get, you have to just do a little dance. - Frank
And wear a t-shirt with a funny slogan/picture on it so you have something to talk about. Just kidding, what Kathryn said.
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starmekitten
-= Forum Pistolera =-
United Kingdom
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Posted - 08/29/2005 : 16:14:19
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Londinium Mikey boy.
I think I've worked out you mean impressive like a train wreck is impressive...
fbc, that's sweet but I fear wildly wrong. |
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fbc
-= Modulator =-
United Kingdom
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Posted - 08/29/2005 : 16:14:21
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Originally posted by Carl
Give us a few steps!
quick ball shuffle change
(the cat) oh well. Still, the Pixies. W'hoo! |
Edited by - fbc on 08/29/2005 16:15:02 |
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starmekitten
-= Forum Pistolera =-
United Kingdom
6370 Posts |
Posted - 08/29/2005 : 16:17:21
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| PIXIES! yay! |
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Homers_pet_monkey
= Official forum monkey =
United Kingdom
17125 Posts |
Posted - 08/29/2005 : 16:18:17
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quote:
Originally posted by therewererumours
quote:
Originally posted by kathryn
Be yourself.
Sometimes, no matter how shitty things get, you have to just do a little dance. - Frank
And wear a t-shirt with a funny slogan/picture on it so you have something to talk about. Just kidding, what Kathryn said.
Join the Cult of
A saw one at Reading that read "Sit on my face and party".
How about that one?
Oh and Kitty, no that is not what I meant.
I'd walk her everyday, into a shady place
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starmekitten
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United Kingdom
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Posted - 08/29/2005 : 16:19:13
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| I'm not wearing a t shirt that says that, that will give entirely the wrong impression! |
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kathryn
~ Selkie Bride ~
Belgium
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Posted - 08/29/2005 : 16:20:12
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Kitty, ressurect your old T-shirt with that lovely sentiment, you know the one I mean. Don't make me post it here. I'll blush.
Sometimes, no matter how shitty things get, you have to just do a little dance. - Frank
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Homers_pet_monkey
= Official forum monkey =
United Kingdom
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Posted - 08/29/2005 : 16:22:05
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quote:
Originally posted by starmekitten
I'm not wearing a t shirt that says that, that will give entirely the wrong impression!
What? You don't like to party?
I'd walk her everyday, into a shady place
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starmekitten
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United Kingdom
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Posted - 08/29/2005 : 16:24:39
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I'm not wearing a fuck me t shirt! This is a sweet, sweet date with a dear and charming young man! Oh bloody hell!
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Edited by - starmekitten on 08/29/2005 16:29:32 |
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PixieSteve
> Teenager of the Year <
Poland
4698 Posts |
Posted - 08/29/2005 : 16:32:06
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what about a t-shirt with "WHY DO CUPIDS AND ANGELS CONTINUALLY HAUNT HER DREAMS LIKE MEMORIES OF ANOTHER LIFE" written on it :)
 Oh let it linger |
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kathryn
~ Selkie Bride ~
Belgium
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Posted - 08/29/2005 : 16:34:48
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Perfect! Perfect!
Sometimes, no matter how shitty things get, you have to just do a little dance. - Frank
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darwin
>> Denizen of the Citizens Band <<
USA
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Posted - 08/29/2005 : 16:40:00
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| Hey, do we know this "charming young man"? I'm always a step behind. |
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PixieSteve
> Teenager of the Year <
Poland
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Posted - 08/29/2005 : 16:43:34
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yeah, the last line of the original post is very mysterious.
Oh let it linger |
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kathryn
~ Selkie Bride ~
Belgium
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Posted - 08/29/2005 : 16:44:18
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It's PixieSteve. I knew it! I knew it! Damn it! He's MY secret forum crush, Kitty. How could you do this to me?
Sometimes, no matter how shitty things get, you have to just do a little dance. - Frank
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starmekitten
-= Forum Pistolera =-
United Kingdom
6370 Posts |
Posted - 08/29/2005 : 16:45:30
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| Is that the royal we or do you mean is he known to the forum because if you're suggesting I'm only saying nice things because he's lurking you'd be dead wrong. |
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kathryn
~ Selkie Bride ~
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Posted - 08/29/2005 : 16:46:43
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Stop being coy, Tre, and just admit that it's PixieSteve. *sob*
Sometimes, no matter how shitty things get, you have to just do a little dance. - Frank
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starmekitten
-= Forum Pistolera =-
United Kingdom
6370 Posts |
Posted - 08/29/2005 : 16:47:08
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| Kathryn behave, Pixiesteves only little |
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PixieSteve
> Teenager of the Year <
Poland
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Posted - 08/29/2005 : 16:47:34
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well i thought kitten was going to the manchester gig but HEY, if she wants to do a long distance date then i'm up for it! ;)
Oh let it linger |
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PixieSteve
> Teenager of the Year <
Poland
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Posted - 08/29/2005 : 16:48:48
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quote:
Originally posted by starmekitten
Kathryn behave, Pixiesteves only little
proof she is all about the sex.
Oh let it linger |
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kathryn
~ Selkie Bride ~
Belgium
15320 Posts |
Posted - 08/29/2005 : 16:49:20
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You two can deny and pretend all you want...
Sometimes, no matter how shitty things get, you have to just do a little dance. - Frank
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dating tips for girls.... (and boys)
