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starmekitten
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Posted - 04/27/2005 :  13:23:31  Show Profile  Visit starmekitten's Homepage  Reply with Quote
you get more than one.


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vilainde
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Niue
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Posted - 04/27/2005 :  13:24:34  Show Profile  Visit vilainde's Homepage  Reply with Quote
fuck yeah!


Denis

"His chops are too righteous. The helmets can't handle this level of rock 'n' roll. Karen, do something!"
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kathryn
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Belgium
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Posted - 04/27/2005 :  13:27:29  Show Profile  Reply with Quote
Is this some reggae thread? I don't do dreadlocks, OK?
They're unsanitary plus goofy-looking on white people.



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darwin
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USA
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Posted - 04/27/2005 :  13:30:25  Show Profile  Reply with Quote
Let's get together and feel alright!
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floop
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Mexico
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Posted - 04/27/2005 :  13:30:39  Show Profile  Reply with Quote
some you can even have simultaneously
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starmekitten
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United Kingdom
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Posted - 04/27/2005 :  13:32:00  Show Profile  Visit starmekitten's Homepage  Reply with Quote
thats not love

it's not bad though don't get me wrong


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floop
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Mexico
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Posted - 04/27/2005 :  13:32:36  Show Profile  Reply with Quote
i wasn't talking about that
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starmekitten
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Posted - 04/27/2005 :  13:34:27  Show Profile  Visit starmekitten's Homepage  Reply with Quote
oh right yes

I wasn't either

*cough*



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KimStanleyRobinson
* Dog in the Sand *

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Posted - 04/27/2005 :  13:37:43  Show Profile  Reply with Quote
the polyamoric people are gonna hate this one.
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kathryn
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Belgium
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Posted - 04/27/2005 :  13:38:25  Show Profile  Reply with Quote
simultaneously?

it's way too early in a thread for me to be confused
but i'm confused.


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floop
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Mexico
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Posted - 04/27/2005 :  13:39:29  Show Profile  Reply with Quote
quote:
Originally posted by kathryn

simultaneously?

it's way too early in a thread for me to be confused
but i'm confused.


I still believe in the excellent joy of the Catholics



kind of like how you have a husband you (presumably) love and whatnot, but also have a forum crush.

feelings for more than one person
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KimStanleyRobinson
* Dog in the Sand *

1972 Posts

Posted - 04/27/2005 :  13:48:02  Show Profile  Reply with Quote
feelings are not love.
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KimStanleyRobinson
* Dog in the Sand *

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Posted - 04/27/2005 :  13:50:05  Show Profile  Reply with Quote
I'm talking song writing, dream-having, can't sleep, obsessing over strands of hair and the smell of bedclothes type stuff here.

I'm talking ripping pages out of magazines, writing short, poetic notes on them and sending them sort of deals.

I'm talking "sittin here wishing on the cement floor" type stuff.


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starmekitten
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United Kingdom
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Posted - 04/27/2005 :  13:50:12  Show Profile  Visit starmekitten's Homepage  Reply with Quote
you still get more than one

i refuse to have that as my lot


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n/a
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Posted - 04/27/2005 :  13:52:20  Show Profile  Reply with Quote
quote:
Originally posted by KimStanleyRobinson

feelings are not love.



You're so right!

I have 3.


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do you think that you would be who you see in the mirror?
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Monsieur
* Dog in the Sand *

France
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Posted - 04/27/2005 :  13:52:28  Show Profile  Reply with Quote
I believe in one love.

A little kid once asked me "But how will I know if it is a true love or not?"

I answered : "Girlie, trust me, you will know..."


I will show you fear in a handful of dust
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kathryn
~ Selkie Bride ~

Belgium
15320 Posts

Posted - 04/27/2005 :  13:56:04  Show Profile  Reply with Quote
quote:
Originally posted by floop

quote:
Originally posted by kathryn

simultaneously?

it's way too early in a thread for me to be confused
but i'm confused.


I still believe in the excellent joy of the Catholics



kind of like how you have a husband you (presumably) love and whatnot, but also have a forum crush.

feelings for more than one person



floop, that's called having vital signs! I whatnot my husband
but that doesn't stop me from finding someone attractive, funny,
sexy, etc.

KRS's stuff, the "sitting on the cement floor," poetic, I'm gonna
write a poem for my baby stuff.... I have never ever gone for.
Maybe I'm just not romantic. I don't believe in romance, I believe
in lust.

I also believe (and guarantee) that kittie's gonna have
nine lives! Honey, you are not going to have just that one
relationship or that one man, I promise.



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KimStanleyRobinson
* Dog in the Sand *

1972 Posts

Posted - 04/27/2005 :  13:57:25  Show Profile  Reply with Quote
well, like I said - could be wrong.

I had a dream once about a girl in a green sweater.
That was some real powerful love feelings I had in the dream and she was not Debbie...there were parts of her that were similar, but the girl in the green sweater was smarter and completely dedicated to and in love with me.
Made me think "she's out there...i can find her..." .

I could invent her, i guess.

Muahhhhahahaha!!!!
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starmekitten
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United Kingdom
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Posted - 04/27/2005 :  14:00:03  Show Profile  Visit starmekitten's Homepage  Reply with Quote
you are wrong Clarky boy, when that one goes another one will come, just because it hasn't happened yet doesn't mean it won't.

K nine? I think nine is greedy


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KimStanleyRobinson
* Dog in the Sand *

1972 Posts

Posted - 04/27/2005 :  14:00:15  Show Profile  Reply with Quote
quote:
Originally posted by rita

quote:
Originally posted by KimStanleyRobinson

feelings are not love.



You're so right!

I have 3.


If you could be anything that you want to be,
do you think that you would be who you see in the mirror?




please explain further, Rita.


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starmekitten
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United Kingdom
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Posted - 04/27/2005 :  14:03:34  Show Profile  Visit starmekitten's Homepage  Reply with Quote
ach I can answer that one, her husband and her two dear children


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Posted - 04/27/2005 :  14:03:44  Show Profile  Reply with Quote
Nothing that could be on your mind Kim, with one love I got to more...those that are the truly loves of my life.


If you could be anything that you want to be,
do you think that you would be who you see in the mirror?
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kathryn
~ Selkie Bride ~

Belgium
15320 Posts

Posted - 04/27/2005 :  14:04:02  Show Profile  Reply with Quote
I don't want to offend the "only one true love" contingent
of our forum but I don't buy that idea and, to me, it reeks
of perfectionism. Like there's this one perfect mate
for perfect you. After the initial two weeks of constant
sex wears off, being in a long-term relationship with
someone is not about perfection or poetry. It's about solving
day-to-day problems with humor and compassion and about being kind to each other. Sorry if that sounds imperfect.



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n/a
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Posted - 04/27/2005 :  14:05:41  Show Profile  Reply with Quote
quote:
Originally posted by starmekitten

ach I can answer that one, her husband and her two dear children


when there's no more room in hell, the dead will walk the earth



How you know me so well Tre.


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starmekitten
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United Kingdom
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Posted - 04/27/2005 :  14:09:04  Show Profile  Visit starmekitten's Homepage  Reply with Quote
Kathryn you're right, love can be all consuming and we put these love objects on a pedestal, but as thigs go wrong as they sadly sometimes do you have to remember to take them down from that pedestal, not measure everyone against them. People got to realize that no one is perfect and perfection gets as boring as everything else.

So give me fabulous imperfect irrational love and let it be tough and let it be confusing and let there be some shit to work out along the way and please god let it be interesting.

(wink)


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kathryn
~ Selkie Bride ~

Belgium
15320 Posts

Posted - 04/27/2005 :  14:09:52  Show Profile  Reply with Quote
quote:
Originally posted by starmekitten



K nine? I think nine is greedy


when there's no more room in hell, the dead will walk the earth



Oh come on, Tre! You're in your early 20s, you're single,
you're a gem, men are fabulous. You will have at least
a handful of fun relationships.


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KimStanleyRobinson
* Dog in the Sand *

1972 Posts

Posted - 04/27/2005 :  14:11:26  Show Profile  Reply with Quote
oh yeah - the kids.

The love I feel for my son is beyond anything I've ever felt for any other human being...but thats because he is my son.

romantic, sexual love with the opposite sex is a whole other bag of apples.

so kathryn, lust, eh?
I'm apt to agree.
Hot is hot and as I get older I'm finding that hot so much more than physicality (duh!).
The married ex-girlfriend i see ever so often is hot in that "lets do it now in the elevator" sort of way but not so hot in the "i could never be a mother" sort of way.



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kathryn
~ Selkie Bride ~

Belgium
15320 Posts

Posted - 04/27/2005 :  14:12:32  Show Profile  Reply with Quote
quote:
Originally posted by starmekitten

Kathryn you're right, love can be all consuming and we put these love objects on a pedestal, but as thigs go wrong as they sadly sometimes do you have to remember to take them down from that pedestal, not measure everyone against them. People got to realize that no one is perfect and perfection gets as boring as everything else.

So give me fabulous imperfect irrational love and let it be tough and let it be confusing and let there be some shit to work out along the way and please god let it be interesting.

(wink)


when there's no more room in hell, the dead will walk the earth



Not to sound like I'm stealing floop's lines but
I'm the only person I've ever put on a pedestal.




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starmekitten
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United Kingdom
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Posted - 04/27/2005 :  14:16:23  Show Profile  Visit starmekitten's Homepage  Reply with Quote
hehe don't quote me that needs changing, you know what I mean though? so many people go through that phase of the one who was the one but slipped by and now no one will measure up...

I did, I know a lot of people that did...

I'm going to lurk in another thread now


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kathryn
~ Selkie Bride ~

Belgium
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Posted - 04/27/2005 :  14:25:00  Show Profile  Reply with Quote
Sounds a bit like what Homers was saying a couple
of days ago. You are not alone.


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KimStanleyRobinson
* Dog in the Sand *

1972 Posts

Posted - 04/27/2005 :  14:25:33  Show Profile  Reply with Quote
quote:
Originally posted by kathryn

being in a long-term relationship with
someone is not about perfection or poetry. It's about solving
day-to-day problems with humor and compassion and about being kind to each other. Sorry if that sounds imperfect.



i don't say love is perfect. i say it happens big and huge and once.
hence, marriage.

if you didn't have real love for this person, there would be no compassion or kindness.

that two weeks of sex is why you are kind...because you still want them and love them and want them to know this...so, you're kind.

You and your lover dealing with life together.
What's not romantic about that?
You're a romantic and don't even know it.
Contrived, invented romance can be campy and annoying but when the real shit is going down, there isn't an opiate out there that can compare.
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starmekitten
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Posted - 04/27/2005 :  14:26:56  Show Profile  Visit starmekitten's Homepage  Reply with Quote
but when it is gone, you have to let it go


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floop
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Mexico
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Posted - 04/27/2005 :  14:28:03  Show Profile  Reply with Quote
when i was in high school i can honestly say i was "in love" and all that..

and then i fell for another girl in college, hardcore

and now i'm in love with Laetitia Casta. so i think that right there proves it
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Homers_pet_monkey
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United Kingdom
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Posted - 04/27/2005 :  14:30:17  Show Profile  Reply with Quote
quote:
Originally posted by kathryn

quote:
Originally posted by floop

quote:
Originally posted by kathryn

simultaneously?

it's way too early in a thread for me to be confused
but i'm confused.


I still believe in the excellent joy of the Catholics



kind of like how you have a husband you (presumably) love and whatnot, but also have a forum crush.

feelings for more than one person




Maybe I'm just not romantic. I don't believe in romance, I believe
in lust.



I still believe in the excellent joy of the Catholics



You believe in love though right? 'Cos lust 'aint nearly enough, neither is romance.

You know actually for me, lust is so far away from love altogether. I lust after people I know I probably can't have. I mean REAL lust when you wanna just, pardon the expression, nail that person right there and then. Temperatures usually die down after that first time. There 'aint nothing like that first time for pure all out lust. I guess the mystery of it all has something to do with it. Perhaps I should start a 'Forum Lust' thread.




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kathryn
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Belgium
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Posted - 04/27/2005 :  14:31:50  Show Profile  Reply with Quote
But Laeticia loves you back, floop, if only because you
always spell her name correctly.


KSR, I don't believe it "happens big and huge and once."
It's happened to me twice, and the first time I left
because I knew that I would eventually get all wacky
dealing with some things about him.


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floop
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Mexico
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Posted - 04/27/2005 :  14:33:43  Show Profile  Reply with Quote
i say fuck all this "it happens when you least expect it" stuff. i'm going to be anal and plan out my love life.

i plan to fall in love again in 2 1/2 years. that'll be a good time because i'll have saved more money and hopefully be in a nice living situation.

then we'll have children and a white picket fence and all that shit
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