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Carl
- A 'Fifth' Catholic -

Ireland
11546 Posts

Posted - 05/28/2004 :  09:35:37  Show Profile  Reply with Quote
I saw this last week-it's a terrific movie made in 1971, with a bit of a cult following. Harold(played by Bud Cort)a rich kid who gets his kicks by feigning suicide and going to funerals;he meets an eccentic old lady(Ruth Gorden from Rosemary's Baby)who also likes to go to funerals and steals cars. Anyway, they fall in love amid all sorts of wacky goings-on. Cat Stevens dose the soundtrack(and has a cameo, I think)and Tom Skerrit makes an appeareance as a cop. It's a really witty, inventive, moving little movie-before I saw it, I though it was just a kind of kitsch, trashy 70's B-movie. But it's great, you've gotta check it out!

mereubu
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USA
2677 Posts

Posted - 05/28/2004 :  09:49:23  Show Profile  Visit mereubu's Homepage  Reply with Quote
I love Harold and Maude! When I was younger, it was one of my "people-tester" movies; if a person didn't like Harold and Maude, then there was clearly something wrong with them.
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ObfuscateByWill
* Dog in the Sand *

USA
1887 Posts

Posted - 05/28/2004 :  10:15:51  Show Profile  Visit ObfuscateByWill's Homepage  Reply with Quote
My art teacher suggested Harold and Maude to me.

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She also invited me over to her house several times.


*Shka-pow!
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shineoftheever
> Teenager of the Year <

Canada
4307 Posts

Posted - 05/28/2004 :  11:20:25  Show Profile  Reply with Quote
UH OH! Your thing turned blue OBW, Is that normal?

Do dyslexic-insomniac-agnostics stay up all night wondering if there really is a dog?
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soundofataris
= Cult of Ray =

USA
715 Posts

Posted - 05/28/2004 :  11:51:20  Show Profile  Reply with Quote
if you want to sing out, sing out
and if you want to be free, be free
cause there's a million ways to be...

I was just telling my kid brother about this movie yesterday. Really great movie. I especially liked his many blind dates.

warm....warmer.....disco!
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ramona
"FB Quote Mistress"

USA
3988 Posts

Posted - 05/28/2004 :  12:39:52  Show Profile  Visit ramona's Homepage  Reply with Quote
quote:
Originally posted by mereubu

I love Harold and Maude! When I was younger, it was one of my "people-tester" movies; if a person didn't like Harold and Maude, then there was clearly something wrong with them.



This is what I use Lost in Translation as now.

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apl4eris
~ Abstract Brain ~

USA
4800 Posts

Posted - 05/28/2004 :  12:55:10  Show Profile  Visit apl4eris's Homepage  Reply with Quote
"Harold and Maude" is in my top ten personal favorite movies. I can't say how many times I've watched it, but it struck a chord with me right from the start. It was the first movie my friend in high school (and now husband) and I went to see together. Ruth Gordon was an incredible lady, and she played such a compelling character - I aspire to that kind of character, and boy do we need more female role models like that. The dark but humanist humor is a riot. Really unique and wonderful movie.

Oh yeah! And the soundtrack is awesome. I love every single one of those songs, but "Trouble" gets me every time.

If the only tool you have is an elbow macaroni,
all your problems look like Schroedinger's cat.

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apl4eris
~ Abstract Brain ~

USA
4800 Posts

Posted - 05/28/2004 :  13:00:21  Show Profile  Visit apl4eris's Homepage  Reply with Quote
Kinda on the subject, I just recently borrowed a banjo from a friend of ours -does anyone have any advice on where to look for lessons/tips online? I would be so greatful. I was playing the durn thing in my dreams last night, but I woke up today, and nope, still nuthin'. I'm a total musical instrument novice.


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cvanepps
= Cult of Ray =

USA
442 Posts

Posted - 05/29/2004 :  06:35:35  Show Profile  Reply with Quote
My favorite part of H&M is when they conspire to make Harold's uncle lose interest in trying to get him in the army. That whole scene is pitch-perfect: the intro, the build-up, the surreal ending. Especially when he goes on about what trophies he'd collect from the enemy. It's brilliantly funny.

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apl4eris
~ Abstract Brain ~

USA
4800 Posts

Posted - 05/29/2004 :  11:34:40  Show Profile  Visit apl4eris's Homepage  Reply with Quote
Well, since it seems I might not be getting an answer on that banjo query (it's ok, I'll get over it , I got off my lazy ass (kind of) and found a neat site, so I thought I would share...you know, just in case anyone here is chomping at the bit to have a duel.

Free lessons and tabs and all sorts of cool banjo-related knee-slappin' corn-shuckin' good times (I'm allowed to make fun -I'm from Kentucky!):

http://www.banjohangout.org/lessons/


If the only tool you have is an elbow macaroni,
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klikger
= Cult of Ray =

693 Posts

Posted - 05/30/2004 :  23:18:51  Show Profile  Reply with Quote
Great flick. Think it needs to go back in the DVD player real soon.
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offerw
* Dog in the Sand *

South Africa
1264 Posts

Posted - 05/31/2004 :  11:06:47  Show Profile  Click to see offerw's MSN Messenger address  Reply with Quote
I picked up the DVD in the bargain bin yesterday. I loved it. A memorable moment was the smirk on Harolds face when his first computer date runs screaming from the house. Thank you for the thread.

wilhelm
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starmekitten
-= Forum Pistolera =-

United Kingdom
6370 Posts

Posted - 05/29/2005 :  16:15:53  Show Profile  Visit starmekitten's Homepage  Reply with Quote
I watched it for the billionth time last week which is why I ressurcted this, I use it as a people tester too but have to be very careful, my friend came over and I had to steel myself not to cry, I failed, badly.

But my friend liked it which means she can stay my friend now :P

trouble.... o-oh trouble set me freee...

pass me a tissue


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kathryn
~ Selkie Bride ~

Belgium
15320 Posts

Posted - 05/29/2005 :  16:19:58  Show Profile  Reply with Quote
The trajectory I use is

Harold and Maude ---------> Secretary

If you don't like them, you're out of the circle of benevolence, if I may borrow
a term from the late Johnnie Cochran.


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BLT
> Teenager of the Year <

South Sandwich Islands
4204 Posts

Posted - 05/29/2005 :  16:49:13  Show Profile  Reply with Quote
I always get this movie mixed up with "Harry and Tonto."
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blue cadet3
- FB Fan -

USA
146 Posts

Posted - 05/29/2005 :  17:14:09  Show Profile  Visit blue cadet3's Homepage  Reply with Quote
This is a great movie. I wasn't expecting to like it as much as I did when I saw it. It is a very quirky,witty,smart movie. I've heard that Zack Braff drew some inspiration from H & M while writting Garden State. I can see some resemblance. What is your favorite way the Harold faked suicide?

-Opinions were like kittens I was giving them away-
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Broken Face
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USA
5155 Posts

Posted - 05/30/2005 :  10:41:06  Show Profile  Visit Broken Face's Homepage  Reply with Quote
Jen thanks for the banjo site - i need more practice/lessons big time!

and H&M is quite good

-Brian

If you move I shoots!

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starmekitten
-= Forum Pistolera =-

United Kingdom
6370 Posts

Posted - 06/03/2005 :  05:47:21  Show Profile  Visit starmekitten's Homepage  Reply with Quote
quote:
Originally posted by offerw

I picked up the DVD in the bargain bin yesterday. I loved it. A memorable moment was the smirk on Harolds face when his first computer date runs screaming from the house. Thank you for the thread.
wilhelm





This one? It's just beautiful.
When I was about 15 I went on a residential trip to north wales, a sort of climbing canoeing all action thing with another school, we got seperated into small "teams" a mix from both schools and I was dreading it to be honest, people I didn't know and people I didn't want to know.. but it was just great, as a group we got on so well and our leader, I wish I could remember her name was amazing, she used to play us Cohen in the minibus and when we went camping in the mountains by a lake she had us sing the songs we'd just heard. Late one night I was out reading on the rocks and she came and told me about this film, she said "It's about love and live and a boy who cuts his jaguar in half and welds it to a hearse, you will like this film" and years later my friend taped it off the TV for me and I recognised it for the one our Cohen loving leader told me about. Been converting people to the cause ever since.

Apl (oh where art thou apl!) is spot on about the Ruth Gordon character, she is inspiring. The first time I watched it I was told that I'd fall in love with Harold by the end of the film...

(I so did)

Cadet, I think the first time because it's a shock, and the look on his face... priceless
"I suppose you think you're very funny, Harold"


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Edited by - starmekitten on 06/03/2005 05:59:02
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KimStanleyRobinson
* Dog in the Sand *

1972 Posts

Posted - 06/06/2005 :  15:26:00  Show Profile  Reply with Quote
Harold and Maude has been rather poignant for me recently.

First of all, there is this ebay auction which i posted and then chickened out of that has to do with this girl (ald desire simmering under surface) that was coming to visit suggesting I name my cats Harold and Maude ... and then oddly enough the female cat, Maude - was hit and killed not long after that was posted.

then the girl showed up and all kinds of shit happened...we both knew she was leaving and I said to her on the last night:

"The lesson of Harold and Maude is to live even though you know you're going to die. Maude knew she was leaving, but she loved and lived like she wasn't anyway."

We tried to live and love like we were going to last forever, but it stopped. Something stopped. I pulled back, she cried and now its all fucked, but we had a time.
A short one, but a time, nonetheless.

There may be more than one shot at love after all, starme.
Sure freekin hurts missing the mark, though.






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kathryn
~ Selkie Bride ~

Belgium
15320 Posts

Posted - 06/06/2005 :  15:45:10  Show Profile  Reply with Quote
KSR's back!!!!


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Carl
- A 'Fifth' Catholic -

Ireland
11546 Posts

Posted - 06/07/2005 :  09:52:00  Show Profile  Reply with Quote
quote:
Originally posted by starmekitten




So funny! The way the camera just hangs on that shot for ages!!
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starmekitten
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United Kingdom
6370 Posts

Posted - 06/07/2005 :  09:57:55  Show Profile  Visit starmekitten's Homepage  Reply with Quote
It's the way he looks so pleased with himself until he turns and sees his mothers face

genius film


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TRANSMARINE
* Dog in the Sand *

USA
2002 Posts

Posted - 06/07/2005 :  10:01:10  Show Profile  Reply with Quote
quote:
Originally posted by ramona

quote:
Originally posted by mereubu

I love Harold and Maude! When I was younger, it was one of my "people-tester" movies; if a person didn't like Harold and Maude, then there was clearly something wrong with them.



This is what I use Lost in Translation as now.

_______________________________________________________
never gonna know you now, but I'm gonna love you anyhow...



I use Faces of Death and Salo: 120 Days of Sodomy.
They usually don't call for a second date.

I was alone...in my BIG BED

-bRIAN
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