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GoddessTheory
= Cult of Ray =

USA
675 Posts

Posted - 01/13/2004 :  12:06:12  Show Profile
Doing a little test. Seeing how long it takes a certain member to follow me here, change the subject by saying something "clever" and try to have it relate to sex in some way. I am finding this to be a daily circumstance of posting anything on these forums. Are there no moderators?

STITCHES
= Cult of Ray =

USA
915 Posts

Posted - 01/13/2004 :  12:12:50  Show Profile
who would be so rude as to do something like that to you?

wanna fuck?

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GoddessTheory
= Cult of Ray =

USA
675 Posts

Posted - 01/13/2004 :  12:24:44  Show Profile
This is not acceptable. there is fun and joking around but you always have to take it too far. I would appreciate if you stop with the rude comments including your signature line.

I am not a prude. I just find you to be a very unnerving individual and someone who takes things too far. You seem to be an omnipresent member of this forum and one who seems to have a comment in every topic that does not pertain to the topic but somehow manages to offend or relate back to sex.

If you don't agree that's fine but I am asking you in as nice a manner as I can muster at this moment to can it with all the sex stuff please.
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STITCHES
= Cult of Ray =

USA
915 Posts

Posted - 01/13/2004 :  12:34:21  Show Profile
the signature line is a quote from a movie....so it stays until I decide to change it.
My comments in quite a few topics are completely relevant and have nothing to do with sex. Quite often I'm not the one who starts the conversation in that direction, I just take it further than some others.
I can only imagine that if you were saying this to me, instead of me reading it, there would be a sob or quiver in your voice. How sad.

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Cult_Of_Frank
= Black Noise Maker =

Canada
11687 Posts

Posted - 01/13/2004 :  12:41:18  Show Profile  Visit Cult_Of_Frank's Homepage
There are moderators.

Yes, the one-liner comments unrelated to the topic at hand are excessive and tend to devolve into back-and-forths with one or two other members, completely derailing the topic at hand. There's nothing wrong with the occasional one-liner even a completely off-topic one, but you know what they say about too much of anything... it would be appreciated if you'd tame them a bit.

Jennifer, I'm afraid you're going to have to learn to deal with your distaste for Stitches without resorting to making provocative "neanderthal" comments and childish name-calling. His post the other day that a band was "piss poor" and your subsequent response are a perfect example in my mind. Ignore his posts if you don't like them, even if it's hard to do.

Yes, we see all but obviously turning the forum into a police state is not something that we're willing to do. There's a balance to be struck and it looked like you have both settled things yesterday without intervention, so it was left alone. There are moderators. No parents.

EDIT - I should mention that if things fail to change (on both parties) then action will be taken.


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Edited by - Cult_Of_Frank on 01/13/2004 12:44:59
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Cult_Of_Frank
= Black Noise Maker =

Canada
11687 Posts

Posted - 01/13/2004 :  12:46:55  Show Profile  Visit Cult_Of_Frank's Homepage
And yes, Floop is correct, your response in this thread, Stitches, is exactly what I DON'T want to see any more of.


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STITCHES
= Cult of Ray =

USA
915 Posts

Posted - 01/13/2004 :  12:47:00  Show Profile
I haven't been harassing her, and I didn't start harassing her in this thread. I was pointing out that she's being overly sensitive.
What corner have I painted myself into? I'm not going to do anything differently, because I havent' done anything wrong, floop

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GoddessTheory
= Cult of Ray =

USA
675 Posts

Posted - 01/13/2004 :  12:47:47  Show Profile
That's why I asked to Stitches in one simple post to stop with the sex stuff.

I suppose what you're saying is I "asked for it". Silly me, I should have kept my pretty little mouth shut, huh?

Sorry. Nevermind I said anything. I guess I was wrong.
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floop
= Wannabe Volunteer =

Mexico
15297 Posts

Posted - 01/13/2004 :  12:49:15  Show Profile
i would say making the comment "wanna fuck?" after someone accuses you of harassing them with sexual comments is acting improperly.

but.. i'm not going to get involved (hence why i deleted my other post - but since you responded [so fast!] i'm responding. but not any more)
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Cult_Of_Frank
= Black Noise Maker =

Canada
11687 Posts

Posted - 01/13/2004 :  12:49:33  Show Profile  Visit Cult_Of_Frank's Homepage
She obviously doesn't like the sex comments directed at her, so I'd recommend not doing them even if you don't find them offensive, there's the distinct possibility that she might, considering she has asked you to stop.


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STITCHES
= Cult of Ray =

USA
915 Posts

Posted - 01/13/2004 :  12:50:04  Show Profile
now you're just making things up. I never said you asked for it, I said you're being overly sensitive. You're turning a few comments (most of which weren't directed at you at all) into a kiddie porn dungeon....

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Cult_Of_Frank
= Black Noise Maker =

Canada
11687 Posts

Posted - 01/13/2004 :  12:51:05  Show Profile  Visit Cult_Of_Frank's Homepage
quote:
Originally posted by GoddessTheory

That's why I asked to Stitches in one simple post to stop with the sex stuff.

I suppose what you're saying is I "asked for it". Silly me, I should have kept my pretty little mouth shut, huh?

Sorry. Nevermind I said anything. I guess I was wrong.



And no, I'm not saying you asked for it, I'm saying that in order to prevent further provocations in the future, you should avoid doing the name calling. Just as he should avoid talking to you altogether.


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GoddessTheory
= Cult of Ray =

USA
675 Posts

Posted - 01/13/2004 :  12:55:22  Show Profile
Stitches, that was directed to the Cult of Frank poster. Yes, you made comments with a sexual bent that I am getting tired of. As long as you cool it, I have no problems. That's why I addressed it. I am sure you will.

To insinuate that because I said you were "cavemanesque" ( a nod to your overtly sexual and chauvanistic shenanigans) meant that I was deserved of MORE said comments was an asanine assumption to make.

Hence the " I guess I deserved it" to Cult of Frank.

Edited by - GoddessTheory on 01/13/2004 12:56:17
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GoddessTheory
= Cult of Ray =

USA
675 Posts

Posted - 01/13/2004 :  12:59:05  Show Profile
Speaking of Police State, I didn't want STITCHES to quit speaking to me altogether, I just wanted to let him know that I didn't appreciate the sex stuff and the leering lecherous comments he seemed to be so adept at. So I told him. Like one adult to another. The way he chooses to respond will show if he TAKES it as an adult or not. I have faith that that's all it will take.

But thanks for the comments Cult of Frank.
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STITCHES
= Cult of Ray =

USA
915 Posts

Posted - 01/13/2004 :  12:59:56  Show Profile
ahhh, I see.
for the record, my "overtly sexual and chauvinistic shenanigans" are a result of me being able to joke with soem of the people on the board without them bursting into tears, and are nothing more than jokes. I"m sorry you didn't interpret them that way

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GoddessTheory
= Cult of Ray =

USA
675 Posts

Posted - 01/13/2004 :  13:03:53  Show Profile
No ones bursting into tears. I just asked you to stop.

To keep saying I am bursting into tears is belittling it. Just check it was all I asked.
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Cult_Of_Frank
= Black Noise Maker =

Canada
11687 Posts

Posted - 01/13/2004 :  13:05:19  Show Profile  Visit Cult_Of_Frank's Homepage
I'm trying very hard not to take sides here but in the end, Stitches, you need to tone down the sex and the excessive one-liner postings. I was re-reading my original post and it appears I'm coming down easily on you and hard on Goddess when my intent is about a 50-50 split.

Profanity (both directed and undirected, though moreso the former), excessive derailing posts, and so forth HAVE to be stopped. A good place to start is your signature. No need to have that garbage on every single post. This is a warning.


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Cult_Of_Frank
= Black Noise Maker =

Canada
11687 Posts

Posted - 01/13/2004 :  13:06:58  Show Profile  Visit Cult_Of_Frank's Homepage
Though it seems you have agreed while I more carefully attempted to word this last message. The warning stands, however.


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STITCHES
= Cult of Ray =

USA
915 Posts

Posted - 01/13/2004 :  13:11:17  Show Profile
Goddess: yes, the belittling was intentional. Lighten up. I'm not throwing a fit about you pointing out my typo, am I?
Frank: as I already explained, the sig is a quote from a movie. There's another forum member who's signature is "fuck you if you don't like it"....I dont see why mine is any worse than his or hers.



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Cult_Of_Frank
= Black Noise Maker =

Canada
11687 Posts

Posted - 01/13/2004 :  13:15:17  Show Profile  Visit Cult_Of_Frank's Homepage
Stitches, perhaps you and I will continue this conversation via email. You seem unable to non-offensively resolve this.


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STITCHES
= Cult of Ray =

USA
915 Posts

Posted - 01/13/2004 :  13:16:13  Show Profile
what have I done that's so offensive now

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Carolynanna
>> Denizen of the Citizens Band <<

Canada
6556 Posts

Posted - 01/13/2004 :  13:18:19  Show Profile
Oh I so don't want to get in here but,
fuck off and suck my cock are two different things and you damn well know it.
Name calling I could care less about but,
if someone wants to chat with you re sex and innuendo fine, have at'er. But if someone doesn't want to then don't, its as simple as that.

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STITCHES
= Cult of Ray =

USA
915 Posts

Posted - 01/13/2004 :  13:23:09  Show Profile
the first time she even let me know she wasn't enjoying the comments (and she had made a few sexual jokes herself) was the start of this thread, when suddenly it's as though I"ve been stalking her around the forum trying to rape her or something.....so of course I gave my response, which is OBVIOUSLY joking!
fuck off and suck my cock are two different things yes, but they were both used in teh context of quotes, and not directed AT anyone, so they become the same: IRRELEVANT

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Cult_Of_Frank
= Black Noise Maker =

Canada
11687 Posts

Posted - 01/13/2004 :  13:31:24  Show Profile  Visit Cult_Of_Frank's Homepage
No, I think the first time was yesterday, though perhaps not directly stated.

Yes, your response here was obviously joking, and I took it as such initially (hence my initial response) but then thought that as a response to a serious request it appeared to not take the comment seriously and so my second response. MY fault as well.

As for offensiveness of your quotes, while they're obviously undirected, they nonetheless are crude and reflect poorly on the forum in general in my mind. I would say that the same thing goes for any signature with profanity and would prefer to see them changed since they appear in every message. I have no problem with occasional profanity in context (and even not), but if you're tacking something on to every message, it shouldn't be 'suck my cock' or 'fuck off'.

Now read your email.


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STITCHES
= Cult of Ray =

USA
915 Posts

Posted - 01/13/2004 :  13:37:13  Show Profile
I already did.....I'm quick like that.
I sure as hell don't remember any comment she made yesterday. Please point it out, as I must have missed or misinterpreted it.

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Cult_Of_Frank
= Black Noise Maker =

Canada
11687 Posts

Posted - 01/13/2004 :  13:55:11  Show Profile  Visit Cult_Of_Frank's Homepage
The point is not who said what when, the point is, it stops now. That's all. No one's saying you're stalking her. You've just been asked not to make any sexual comments to her in the future. If you haven't been up until this point anyway, then that should be exceedingly simple, and all I need is an "I agree" from you.


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STITCHES
= Cult of Ray =

USA
915 Posts

Posted - 01/13/2004 :  13:57:24  Show Profile
quote:
Originally posted by STITCHES

ahhh, I see.
for the record, my "overtly sexual and chauvinistic shenanigans" are a result of me being able to joke with soem of the people on the board without them bursting into tears, and are nothing more than jokes. I"m sorry you didn't interpret them that way



i thought thats waht this was

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Cult_Of_Frank
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Canada
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Posted - 01/13/2004 :  13:57:58  Show Profile  Visit Cult_Of_Frank's Homepage
And I'm going to chat with Mr. Noisy and Jim about the signatures to see what they think on the issue, so that's on standby for the moment.


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STITCHES
= Cult of Ray =

USA
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Posted - 01/13/2004 :  14:01:10  Show Profile
this was resolve an hour ago.....and yet here we are

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Cult_Of_Frank
= Black Noise Maker =

Canada
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Posted - 01/13/2004 :  14:02:05  Show Profile  Visit Cult_Of_Frank's Homepage
Excellent. Then we'll lock this up nicely and be done with it. Maybe we just like to argue.


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