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floop
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Mexico
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 Posted - 10/26/2003 : 16:50:47
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not that anyone cares but....
my girlfriend and i broke up early this year.. it was sort of mutual, at first.. but in the end, in all honesty, she dumped me, leaving my heart in ruins, etc etc.. (seriously)
7 months later.. i've moved on for the most part.. i've been dating since then, and most of the not-so-fun feelings have passed..
then, last night, before going out, i stopped to get a double espresso as i often do for a little pick-me-up on a weekend night.. and who was the person serving me?
that's right. apparantly she's working at one of my coffee shops now. great.
it was the first time we've actually talked or seen each other since breaking up..
nothing like running into an ex- to fuck up your equilibrium for the night.
at least i wasn't the one serving her coffee though..
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ramona
"FB Quote Mistress"
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Posted - 10/26/2003 : 16:59:09
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| Oy. That sucks. It is very much like a scenario I had a month or so ago. I went into my morning coffee place and who was sitting there casually but my nasty boring old ex? He lives like 200 miles away now - doesn't he know that's MY coffee place! Anyway, he proceeded to tell me a boring story and I was reminded how bland he is and why we broke up. I guess this stuff just happens so that we can realize why we moved on. |
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realmeanmotorscutor
* Dog in the Sand *
USA
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Posted - 10/26/2003 : 17:06:52
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After 2 years of being broken up with this girl I was walking through the mall and when I lifted my head I noticed her walking directly in front of me. My heart leaped, my palms were sweating, I completely freaked out. I ducked out of there as fast as possible.
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Little Black Francis
> Teenager of the Year <
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Posted - 10/26/2003 : 17:32:34
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floop
>> Denizen of the Citizens Band <<
1303 Posts
Posted - 10/26/2003 : 16:50:47
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not that anyone cares but....
LBF:I care Floopy
my girlfriend and i broke up early this year.. it was sort of mutual, at first.. but in the end, in all honesty, she dumped me, leaving my heart in ruins, etc etc.. (seriously)
LBF:I just pretty much officially got dumped again. It never gets any easier. My heart aches so much it fills my chest. I'm tired of crying like a little bitch.
7 months later.. i've moved on for the most part.. i've been dating since then, and most of the not-so-fun feelings have passed..
LBF:7 minutes later I'm not having so much fun fun, rather, sad fun. I'll meet you there maybe. I'm afraid to date anymore. I want to become a relcuse, live in my room with no windows, turn off all the lights, and hide.
then, last night, before going out, i stopped to get a double espresso as i often do for a little pick-me-up on a weekend night.. and who was the person serving me?
LBF: Caffine makes me trip.
that's right. apparantly she's working at one of my coffee shops now. great.
it was the first time we've actually talked or seen each other since breaking up..
nothing like running into an ex- to fuck up your equilibrium for the night.
LBF: I hate it when I lost my equilibrium, or my xanax :)
No seriously, I get the same way. Sometimes I have nervous break down from that shit. Like last thursday.
Why?
I am so confused about life and people and social studies...
at least i wasn't the one serving her coffee though..
LBF: Hey now, that's mean.
mijn vriendin kan geen orgasme krijgen
LBF: my most recent ex-girl friend will forever be associated in my mind with: mijn vriendin kan geen orgasme krijgen
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ramona
>> Denizen of the Citizens Band <<
USA
1686 Posts
Posted - 10/26/2003 : 16:59:09
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Oy. That sucks. It is very much like a scenario I had a month or so ago. I went into my morning coffee place and who was sitting there casually but my nasty boring old ex? He lives like 200 miles away now - doesn't he know that's MY coffee place! Anyway, he proceeded to tell me a boring story and I was reminded how bland he is and why we broke up. I guess this stuff just happens so that we can realize why we moved on.
LBF: "I guess this stuff just happens so that we can realize why we moved on." You are so right. Well put.
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Little Black Francis
> Teenager of the Year <
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Posted - 10/26/2003 : 18:03:49
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Thanks for updated Profile Floop : )
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I especially like Neil Young's mother's quote. I'd never heard that before. I want to 'member it. |
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floop
= Wannabe Volunteer =
Mexico
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Posted - 10/26/2003 : 18:23:13
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Originally posted by Little Black Francis
at least i wasn't the one serving her coffee though..
LBF: Hey now, that's mean.
that was mean.. but hey, she dumped me so i can joke about it.
actually she gave me my coffee for free, which was cool. i'm proud of myself for keeping my cool (and not running away which i would have done 5 months ago)..
i made the most of the opportunity actually.. and after some small talk, very casually said "i'm still sorry you broke my heart.. i miss you"..
and then left.
yes, i'm immature.
as an aside, they have this magic 8-ball on the counter there. so while she was pouring my espresso i asked the 8 ball if i should make an attempt at mending things..
the answer: "outlook not so good"
i always make my major life decisions with the help of the magic 8-ball.
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WolfManMikeLonely
= Cult of Ray =
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Posted - 10/26/2003 : 19:44:55
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My ex showed up at my house the other morning, real odd experience but I hope that we get to hang out more soon I really miss and maybe we can even mend things, but that's probably just wishful thinking.
"Hey fuck you if you don't like it."
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Little Black Francis
> Teenager of the Year <
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Posted - 10/26/2003 : 22:16:20
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I am motherfucking single again yo : )
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Edited by - Little Black Francis on 10/26/2003 22:16:42 |
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realmeanmotorscutor
* Dog in the Sand *
USA
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Posted - 10/26/2003 : 22:47:40
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see LBF, there's the bright side - there's a whole slew'a ho's just waiting for you.
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billgoodman
>> Denizen of the Citizens Band <<
Netherlands
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Posted - 10/26/2003 : 23:29:24
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she's not really an ex, I just kissed her a couple of times
but I had this e-mail friend whom I dated one time and kissed.
I run into her almost every concert I go to: Throwing Muses, Nada Surf, Guided By Voices, Jon Spencer Blues Explosion, Frank Black....man!
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mun chien andalusia
= Quote Accumulator =
Italy
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Posted - 10/26/2003 : 23:39:00
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what a depressing thread.i like it.here's what i think on bumping on ex's for what it's worth.since i have to live in this small city i continue to bump in in ex girlfriends and it always feels weird.for some reason i cannot easily accept that two persons that used to be lovers meet and ignore each other or they just say hi like perfect strangers.the only positive thing is that this girl that has been my girlfriend for 4 years(yes it was love)and who dumped me (though at the time,like in the case of floop, made it look like it was mutual)now looks like shit.she took like 10-15 kgs of weight and her actual boyfriend is a complete idiot.i know it's childish but it makes me feel a whole lot better.
 presented in mind control\where available
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Little Black Francis
> Teenager of the Year <
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Posted - 10/26/2003 : 23:49:37
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my breath smells like an old keg,
alright
Oh yeahm abd I an listening to PJ HARVEY 'cause my x gilly
im not the one you nneed
so pretty thats
a rabbiot way
mistreated
I shall laugh when you begged abd pleasde
a pig or a goat
or you you fruuggin heaartleesss ninja
fuck it
i amnot the one you needed
I am getting a nervous breakdown from fbs and yous guyze genius
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Little Black Francis
> Teenager of the Year <
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Posted - 10/26/2003 : 23:50:39
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contact
the coastline
save us both some time
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mun chien andalusia
= Quote Accumulator =
Italy
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Posted - 10/27/2003 : 00:09:21
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hey LBF like they say here in italy,su con la vita...
presented in mind control\where available
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Little Black Francis
> Teenager of the Year <
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Posted - 10/27/2003 : 00:31:47
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esti es no mas, que vida
I am a classics major in USA
tok lots of latin and ancient greek, attic dialect
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Little Black Francis
> Teenager of the Year <
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Posted - 10/27/2003 : 01:02:31
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You know
I mean
Like
Total
Totally too
^ 'tis fun w/ zee X
esperanto
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rockathon
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Posted - 10/27/2003 : 05:58:01
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Cult_Of_Frank
= Black Noise Maker =
Canada
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Posted - 10/27/2003 : 06:39:03
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Rockathon, that's a great line. Consider it stolen. :)
I ran into an ex that I had been really serious fairly consistently as we both attended university together. It was about as messy a break-up as you can imagine involving a lot of deceit (not me- I'm a good boy) and other fun stuff, and so it was understandably awkward when we ran into each other. More so on my part, I think, since even though she'd been evil to me I still, well, whatever, I had my problems back then I guess. It was a long recovery.
One day I ran into her and her new boyfriend whom I KNEW she'd been fooling around with holding hands a few months later. It didn't phase me in the least. I was in a great mood prior, the guy is a moron anyway, and it actually brought a smile to my face. Well, I was so pleasant, saying hi to both of them that they had nothing to say. They literally just stood there with open mouths as I walked cheerily by. That might have been one of the better moments of my life, the realization that I was finally over her after months of torture. I was in a good mood after that encounter for like a week.
Anyway, Floop, LBF, the day of reckoning will come.
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realmeanmotorscutor
* Dog in the Sand *
USA
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Posted - 10/27/2003 : 07:16:46
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My ex had this best guy friend and I awlays knew they liked each other but neither would admit it. I couldn't say much about their hanging out because he was there long before me, after about 2 years we broke up; it took me 2 more years to start dating again but I found out she started dating the "guy friend" a hell of a lot sooner. That really hurt.
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Cult_Of_Frank
= Black Noise Maker =
Canada
11690 Posts |
Posted - 10/27/2003 : 07:23:38
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Yeah. If it's over, it's over. Tell me and THEN move on. Nothing like being the only one in a relationship who cares and finding out later that everything from her end was as fake as her personality.
"Join the Cult of Frank / And you'll be enlightened" |
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realmeanmotorscutor
* Dog in the Sand *
USA
1764 Posts |
Posted - 10/27/2003 : 07:46:25
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agreed. By the way, because of this post along I dreamed about her last night; it messed me up a bit. I should post that in the dreams thread too I guess.
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glacial906
* Dog in the Sand *
USA
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Posted - 10/27/2003 : 07:48:12
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Me and my wife dated since high school (I was 17 and she was 15 when we met) and during our time spent "going out" as high-school kids called it, she would have guy friends. I only had casual girl friends, and it kind of bothered me. Nowadays, neither she nor I has any friends at all; we're too busy with the baby!
Seriously, though, we do each have friends, but me hanging out with a chick or her hanging out with a guy would be out of the question. It's not that we don't trust each other, it just would feel inappropriate.
I'm not aware of any times in previous relationships that I was cheated on, (me and my wife know all of each other's ugly little secrets) but there were a couple of girls in high school that dated me just to get back at their "steady" boyfriend, and then when they made up with him, they'd be all apologetic. Stupid hoes. |
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the swimmer
* Dog in the Sand *
USA
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Posted - 10/27/2003 : 07:52:27
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I'll tell you what, if their is ONE PLACE I'd like to run into an ex, it is at some sort of service oriented place such as that....
Picture it...you're about to hit the town, you're showered, shat and shaved and you're smelling like a rose about to put the smackdown on some honeys and here comes little miss shouldacouldabeen taking your order like a little wage slave.
Shit, I'd be having a ball in that situation. That is, if I "hated" her.
If I still liked her on the other hand, it'd still be good because she gets to see me at my finest and she has to saty there while I have a good time.
Sort of a metaphor for the whole situation.
You know what's real good though? Ex girlfriend sex. You can grudge fuck if you want and you don't have to call her ever again. |
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floop
= Wannabe Volunteer =
Mexico
15297 Posts |
Posted - 10/27/2003 : 10:00:06
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Originally posted by the swimmer
I'll tell you what, if their is ONE PLACE I'd like to run into an ex, it is at some sort of service oriented place such as that....
Picture it...you're about to hit the town, you're showered, shat and shaved and you're smelling like a rose about to put the smackdown on some honeys and here comes little miss shouldacouldabeen taking your order like a little wage slave.
Shit, I'd be having a ball in that situation. That is, if I "hated" her.
If I still liked her on the other hand, it'd still be good because she gets to see me at my finest and she has to saty there while I have a good time.
Sort of a metaphor for the whole situation.
You know what's real good though? Ex girlfriend sex. You can grudge fuck if you want and you don't have to call her ever again.
yeah, i don't hate her.. quite the opposite actually.. although there are feelings of anger and hate mixed in there too (as in any emotional break up)..
but yeah, i can imagine worse scenarios to bump into her.. like, if i lost my job and beame a garbage man.. and was picking up her garbage, and then she was like "excuse me mr. garbage man, you forgot this.. OH, it's YOU"..
that would suck.
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