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| GypsyDeath |
Posted - 07/05/2004 : 06:37:54
So, I cant remember where I heard this, but apparently the time when you lose your virginity - the way in which that happens will decide how you like sex for the rest of your life.
So like, if the lights were on, then you always like it with the lights on; position etc....
However, there is also the theory that Its not so much the sex, but your first partner, fisrt person you fall in love with which decide (even if sub consiously) what sort of person you will be rawn to for all of your subsequent relationships.
This I think has more weight to it. Even though i though I went for completely different guys each time, they are basically all the same. they have at least 3 of the same qualities.
1- Arrogant
2- Controlling
3- Liars
ok, so that could be every guy in the world, but theres a bunch of other things aswell. No matter how nice they seem at first, they all boil down to the same guy.
So do you think you go for the same person everytime? Do you look for the same sort of person? What was you first love like?
Just thought I'd throw that in there... |
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| GypsyDeath |
Posted - 07/11/2004 : 12:29:12
quote:
Originally posted by Homers_pet_monkey
I wouldn't either but that's 'cos I'm scared of nobody.
Except Jaws. Oh and that guy out of Arachnophobia. The one with eight legs.
Hey, I thought you said you were a man who shall fight for honour? haha. 
Anyway, you officially have to be involved in fights that i start. Its the law now. DOnt argue.
Just thought I'd throw that in there... |
| n/a |
Posted - 07/10/2004 : 04:36:50
I told you eight legs were wrong. Aesthetically and morally dirty bad and wrong
Frank Black ate my Hamster
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| Homers_pet_monkey |
Posted - 07/10/2004 : 01:44:14
I wouldn't either but that's 'cos I'm scared of nobody.
Except Jaws. Oh and that guy out of Arachnophobia. The one with eight legs.
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| Cheeseman1000 |
Posted - 07/10/2004 : 01:41:45
quote:
Originally posted by Malax
fight fight fight fight fight
-your gonna loose barto, she has the heavies-
I May've Joined The Cult Of Frank If I Knew What The Balls Was Going On.
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You mean HPM's blue belt in kickboxing? I wouldn't worry if I were you...
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| Opaque |
Posted - 07/09/2004 : 22:37:08
quote:
Originally posted by Jason
Imagine looking down at the human race from off in space somewhere, and seeing that we're all just animals running around showing off our wingspan and nest-building skills to get the attention of the mates with the best genes.
I'm thinking that there is a Bloodhound Gang song somewhere in that...
Wait, wait... people have wings? (J/K)
"My primitive words match my primitive heart..." - Mercury Rev |
| Opaque |
Posted - 07/09/2004 : 20:53:47
Whatever happened to just liking someone cause you like them? Without all the psychology? *SIGH* Ahhh... the good ol' days.
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| Carolynanna |
Posted - 07/09/2004 : 14:58:31
Damn Cougs! ;)
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| Jason |
Posted - 07/09/2004 : 14:56:53
A 45-50 year old woman, a co-worker, hit on me last night. She's desperate for a husband and boy was I uncomfortable.
I tried whatever I could think of at the time to politely put a wall up between us ("I don't think I'll ever get married", I remarked conversationally), but I have a scary feeling that she didn't get it. She's a nice lady. I don't want to be rude.
In my teens and early 20s I had a thing for older woman. Maybe most guys at that age do. I still wouldn't have gone for Co-Worker Lady back then, but I have clear memory of a painful crush on a teacher. There's the obvious allure of being handled by an experienced woman, but I think much of the psychology at work, for a young man, is that he interprets interest from a sexy older lady as a high compliment. ("If a hot 33 year old likes 19 year old me, I must be really mature and special!")
And for older women who are interested in younger men, I think some of them are also dealing with ego issues. To an aging woman, fucking a younger man makes HER feel younger. Most women are neurotic about their looks and for many it only gets worse as they age because they think they're losing whatever they may have had in their 20s. Luring in a younger guy, makes them feel that they still have it. |
| Malax |
Posted - 07/09/2004 : 09:32:29
fight fight fight fight fight
-your gonna loose barto, she has the heavies-
I May've Joined The Cult Of Frank If I Knew What The Balls Was Going On.
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| GypsyDeath |
Posted - 07/09/2004 : 07:49:15
quote:
Originally posted by El Barto
Older men can also type properly and have money. That's a plus, too.
I guess I just wasn't made for these times.
What the fuck is your problem?
Why bother? Was it worth it? Did it make you feel any better? If you have a problem fucking email me.
Just thought I'd throw that in there... |
| El Barto |
Posted - 07/08/2004 : 16:41:10
Older men can also type properly and have money. That's a plus, too.
I guess I just wasn't made for these times. |
| bumblebeeboy2 |
Posted - 07/08/2004 : 14:48:20
quote:
Originally posted by Homers_pet_monkey
Yes I do. Just not as much as Bumble and Mel.
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| Malax |
Posted - 07/08/2004 : 14:44:22
quote:
Originally posted by GypsyDeath
Its nto always a matter of the fact that a man may 'GO' for younger girls...Its just who you like, and in my eyes, age is no barrier to that(erm, unless they are too young...). admittedly, id probably stop once they get to like, my mums age (43).
I go for older men because they no what they are doing, bed wise. I mean, id never had 'bad' sex before, but once youve had someone who actually knows what they are doing...*sigh*. Yeah, thats why I couldnt go out with a 'boy' again. ever.
I go for older men because they are MUCH sexier than these teenage/early 20s thug type idiots. Men get better looking with age., They are like wine.
I go for older men because they are (normally) pretty settled. they know what they are doing with their life, and they have done (normally) a wealth of things. I love being told (true) stories. older guys have a lot of them.
Older men have generally worked out who they are and where they fit in to the grand scheme of things. Well, more so that a boy would have.
Older men know how to treat a woman (normally), and are polite, and curteous, and gentlemanly.
Older men usually have much better bodies.
These are some of the reasons I go for older guys. Obviously, all of these are generalisations, and in most cases I am saying 'more so than boys would..' not that boys do not have some or all of these qualities, just men dot hem better, are more refined at them.
Just thought I'd throw that in there...
*cringe* -withholds further comments because its just a matter of opinion-
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| GypsyDeath |
Posted - 07/08/2004 : 08:13:51
Its nto always a matter of the fact that a man may 'GO' for younger girls...Its just who you like, and in my eyes, age is no barrier to that(erm, unless they are too young...). admittedly, id probably stop once they get to like, my mums age (43).
I go for older men because they no what they are doing, bed wise. I mean, id never had 'bad' sex before, but once youve had someone who actually knows what they are doing...*sigh*. Yeah, thats why I couldnt go out with a 'boy' again. ever.
I go for older men because they are MUCH sexier than these teenage/early 20s thug type idiots. Men get better looking with age., They are like wine.
I go for older men because they are (normally) pretty settled. they know what they are doing with their life, and they have done (normally) a wealth of things. I love being told (true) stories. older guys have a lot of them.
Older men have generally worked out who they are and where they fit in to the grand scheme of things. Well, more so that a boy would have.
Older men know how to treat a woman (normally), and are polite, and curteous, and gentlemanly.
Older men usually have much better bodies.
These are some of the reasons I go for older guys. Obviously, all of these are generalisations, and in most cases I am saying 'more so than boys would..' not that boys do not have some or all of these qualities, just men dot hem better, are more refined at them.
Just thought I'd throw that in there... |
| n/a |
Posted - 07/07/2004 : 20:41:43
So I'm sorry I got confused and had a rant... As for men I'm not sure the novelty of having a cock wears off, and to be fair to them it is kind of interesting! heh heh heh ()
But I think the reason most guys go for younger women is because of that generalistation where most men fall for what they see, and women for older men because most women fall for what they hear, and older men have practice in the talk! And maturity on their side
Oh I don't know! I don't know what makes me tick let alone anyone else
Frank Black ate my Hamster
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| n/a |
Posted - 07/07/2004 : 20:35:43
ah crouton, wires crossed and drink induced ranting does much confusion make.
I wasn't passing comment on boys and their hormones It was more of an eostrogen as an attractant comment, as females lose their eostrogen they are biologically "over the hill" and less attractive because of the inability for constructive mating in general biological terms this has ben found to be true for all mammals, most males can sense when a female is in heat because of the release of pheromones and this makes her more sexual attractive at a base level....
Frank Black ate my Hamster
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| TheCroutonFuton |
Posted - 07/07/2004 : 15:48:22
"And I always found guys I knew in the 18-20 age bracket to be cock-led-idiots."
I know. I replied to THAT. Not the scrambled eggs quote...
I know that women can't help that their "eggs are being scrambled"...I was talking about teenage boys and young men who say they can't help being so cock-driven and horny because of their hormones. Make more sense now?
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| n/a |
Posted - 07/07/2004 : 15:23:57
talking about a previous post
Frank Black ate my Hamster
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| TheCroutonFuton |
Posted - 07/07/2004 : 15:21:29
quote:
Originally posted by Tre
hey! Did I say I can't help it becasue of hormones? Did I !!! NO!!! I was stating a simple biological FACT that eostrogen is an arousing hormone to men and women and that decrease production of it has an affect on sex drives.
Frank Black ate my Hamster
Wait, what?
What are you talking about?
I was talking about the headfuckedness of the cock-brained 18-20 year old men...
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| Homers_pet_monkey |
Posted - 07/07/2004 : 14:58:21
Yes I do. Just not as much as Bumble and Mel.
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| Opaque |
Posted - 07/07/2004 : 14:57:56
quote:
Originally posted by Homers_pet_monkey
Can I join you in a dopey grin Opaque?
Oh, please do.  Feeling like I need a lot of dopey grins right about now.
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| Cheeseman1000 |
Posted - 07/07/2004 : 14:54:57
quote:
Originally posted by Homers_pet_monkey
Can I join you in a dopey grin Opaque?
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| n/a |
Posted - 07/07/2004 : 14:44:52
hey! Did I say I can't help it becasue of hormones? Did I !!! NO!!! I was stating a simple biological FACT that eostrogen is an arousing hormone to men and women and that decrease production of it has an affect on sex drives.
Frank Black ate my Hamster
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| Homers_pet_monkey |
Posted - 07/07/2004 : 14:43:58
Can I join you in a dopey grin Opaque?
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| Opaque |
Posted - 07/07/2004 : 14:25:16
quote:
Originally posted by chris kennedy
If you're involved with someone intimately and they lie to you, disrespect you, fuck you over, even once, thats a dealbreaker.
Yeah. Some things are really hard to cope with once you've invested so much of your trust. Of course, then there are those times when you don't know them well enough to know what in the heck you are doing and you just screw it all up even when you don't mean to. I suppose we are all inherently flawed. *SIGH* And some days I think I may be more flawed than others.
Hey... but at least I like Frank Black! *Dopey Grin* :-}
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| chris kennedy |
Posted - 07/07/2004 : 14:04:50
This is a great thread / read. The idea of respect has to come into play when you're involved with someone. Respect for yourself, respect for your mate. Whether you get back the same level you put in is the gamble. If you're involved with someone intimately and they lie to you, disrespect you, fuck you over, even once, thats a dealbreaker. |
| Opaque |
Posted - 07/07/2004 : 12:57:54
quote:
Originally posted by Tre
And I always found guys I knew in the 18-20 age bracket to be cock-led-idiots. I think women *as a rule* find the older man attractive because they want to get away from this immature head-fuckery
Oh, the head fuckery. How many times has it happened, and how many times will it happen again?
From what I've seen, it does appear that younger women are more inclined to believe a whole lot of BS from older males. Which is sad. When I see that sort of thing going on, it kinda hurts to watch it. Sometimes you just know that she's in love with an ideal versus what is really going on. Everyone pretty much just wants to be loved. And sometimes that desire overrides any semblance of common sense. And how very sad that some would prey upon this inherent human characteristic.
I know a lot of folks too that say things like they got married or are dating someone because of their looks. One in particular comes to mind... doesn't matter about actual compatibility/love in his case, just that she has a "nice rack." Or whatever. I guess I think that's messed up.
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| TheCroutonFuton |
Posted - 07/07/2004 : 09:51:53
Tre - Their "I can't help it because of hormones blablabla" is utter bullshit.
"Freedom is a state of mind and the condition and position of your ass. Free your mind and your ass will follow." - Funkadelic |
| n/a |
Posted - 07/07/2004 : 09:45:27
Well, men spurt out their crackerspawn baby making juice in full working order forever and at a certain age we lady folk stop leaking scrambled eggs which allegedly has an effect on our sex drives. And attractiveness, hormonal induced rutting. Appartantly
The women I work with (when they aren't talking about how many stitches they need after childbirth - EUK) Tell me they hit their sexual peak in their forties and untill then sex was crap, but I am not overly sure I believe this.
And why are all these older men and women hunting for toy-fuckery anyway? I'm kind of hoping that when I hit 40 I'll be settled with a perma-fuck (or partner to use politer terms) and not have to lure away little boys.. But even if I'm not I'm not sure toy-fuckery is the way forward
And I always found guys I knew in the 18-20 age bracket to be cock-led-idiots. I think women *as a rule* find the older man attractive because they want to get away from this immature head-fuckery
Frank Black ate my Hamster
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| TheCroutonFuton |
Posted - 07/07/2004 : 09:41:59
Girls mature faster than guys - it makes sense.
Ouch. Look at girls my age. Seriously, they're fucking repulsive. There's a reason I don't have many friends my own age and why I'd never date someone my age. Hell, I'm the youngest person in my class (of 2006)..so they're all 16 or 17..that's not much younger than you and they're disgustingly immature. I think it would be safe to say "smart girls mature faster than normal guys"...but "girls mature faster than guys"..I'm not sure about that.
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| Carolynanna |
Posted - 07/07/2004 : 09:32:10
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I find that first bit of this post to be very true. For some reason, there is some psychological reason in which women get blasted for being old (especially in the US) whereas men don't - why is that? I never understood it.
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Because then they look old...
and how are women valued here... |
| GypsyDeath |
Posted - 07/07/2004 : 08:04:17
OK, right, where to start!?
Malax - I can see your point, and I know where you are coming from. However, as it has been mentioned here, a lot of guys dont go out with women their own age because women their own age are either a) married or b) psycopaths.
I am not in the slightest denying that older guys often think ' fucking hell, shes 18 and wants to fuck me, cant wait to tell my mates'. Im not denying that in even in the most genuine guys it is often an arousing thought the fact that im 18. I know what guys are like. And I know what gets them going in that respect.
However, the fact is that I do not ACT like an 18 year old. Guys that are attracted to girls who actually ACT like little girls...thats when you have to start worrying. In fairness, a lot of the older guys ive been with havent known how old i am til a fair bit later on.
I agree that theres often underlying factors to guys who will consiously TARGET younger girls, and often some mentla problems that need straightening out. but, these problems are often not half as troublesom as an 18 yr olds biys problems.
Girls mature faster than guys - it makes sense. Guys at 28+ are generally on my wavelength.
The age I generally go for is 27 - 35. Sometimes swaying a little either side of that. I am staying away from 29/30 yr olds though, as they tend to be going a bit crazy themselves...sorta pre-mid life crisis. And are deliberatly going for younger girls to boost their egos. (trust me, this i have a wealth of experience in)
Just thought I'd throw that in there... |
| ramona |
Posted - 07/07/2004 : 08:04:04
The first person I slept with was not my first love, so I don't know what that means for me. I also think the thing about wanting sex to be the same as the first time is kind of crap (no offense, Mel) cause I think it is pretty much universal that the first time is never GREAT for a girl. Well, hardly ever.
Anyway, I wasn't thrilled by the first time, but I still ended up loving sex, so I don't know.
I guess I am not much help in the overall "debate".  The first time setting the standard is not true for me though.
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| begeegs |
Posted - 07/07/2004 : 02:15:04
quote:
Originally posted by mun chien andalusia
crouton are you trying to prove me old? everybody knows that women are jealous of mens' good aging so they invent that stuff. and i assure you that teenage enthusiasm alone doesn't has a chance against experience. i clearly remember that when i was 18 i was snobbed by alost every decent girl of my age or older. now it is pretty much the exact contrary. and scientifically speaking at 18 years you are still imature (you don't even have all teeth or a decent beard) but you are a complete adult between the age of 25 and 35. that's your top and it is in your hands to prolong it as much as possible.
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I find that first bit of this post to be very true. For some reason, there is some psychological reason in which women get blasted for being old (especially in the US) whereas men don't - why is that? I never understood it.
I too was blasted by females when I was between the ages of 18-20, but I do think it is largely because of men being completely wet at that time and not able to tear themselves away from from their boyhood pursuits. In fact alot of my work colleagues are still deeply in their boyhood pursuits @ 27, which I would think would be a major turn-off for women at any age. |
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Posted - 07/07/2004 : 00:41:35
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