One of the songs that I wanted to but couldn't include on my mix for the latest cd swap was a cover by Dismemberment Plan of Jennifer Paige/Mandy Moore (whoever else) Crush (beautiful haunting bittersweet version), which brings up the whole secret forum crush (SFC) and real life crush thing all over again - well for me at least (and maybe another forum member who may or may not have mentioned theirs to me in a few conversations).
Here is the thread for all you hopeless romantics of the forum (no particular names mentioned) to pour your hearts out in.
The only way to get rid of temptation is to yield to it.