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kathryn
~ Selkie Bride ~
Belgium
15320 Posts |
Posted - 04/18/2005 : 10:42:58
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That's a pleasing shade of red. I bet it does feel bad not being able to buy that.
But can you feel this whole other level of bad: razor burn on your legs. Ouch. Bad.
I still believe in the excellent joy of the Catholics |
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Homers_pet_monkey
= Official forum monkey =
United Kingdom
17125 Posts |
Posted - 04/18/2005 : 11:53:56
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quote: Originally posted by starmekitten
quote: Originally posted by Homers_pet_monkey
but then she does look a lot like my ex (who I still have strong feelings for)
What do you guys think I should do?
“Did I leave the gas on? No! I’m – no – I’m a fucking squirrel!”
This sentance alone says forget about it. You're not ready.
Thats probably not what you want to hear though.
Life is pain, Highness. Anyone who says differently is selling something.
I kinda see what you are saying (and was expecting someone would) but I would ne interested to know why you think I am not ready. This girl is in no way a substitute by the way. She really is the most beautiful girl I have ever seen (IMO).
“Did I leave the gas on? No! I’m – no – I’m a fucking squirrel!”
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offerw
* Dog in the Sand *
South Africa
1264 Posts |
Posted - 04/18/2005 : 12:05:58
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Homer, maybe she was the most beautiful girl you've ever seen because of the E which you had. You might be disappointed when you see here in sober daylight.
wilhelm |
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Homers_pet_monkey
= Official forum monkey =
United Kingdom
17125 Posts |
Posted - 04/18/2005 : 12:09:06
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There is no such thing as 'E Goggles', well not for me anyway. Trust me, she was my ideal woman.
“Did I leave the gas on? No! I’m – no – I’m a fucking squirrel!”
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starmekitten
-= Forum Pistolera =-
United Kingdom
6370 Posts |
Posted - 04/18/2005 : 12:10:29
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you're not over your ex, and that causes all sorts of trouble, you say it's not substitution but you'll be replacing one girl with another before getting over the first one and that getting over it thing won't magically happen because you're seeing someone new.
From my own experience of seeing someone who wasn't over their "big relationship" it messes things up and you'll end up twice as confused, especially if she ends up going away, you'll be worse off than when you started.
I honestly think time for people to sort their directions out in their head alone does them good, post break-up sometimes for years the loneliness can be intense and it's not just not being with anyone it's not being with someone as well. Until that goes away (and it does) until you stop measuring people against that one (and that happens too) and until you stop wanting it so bad (and you will) I don't think anyone is ready. I know too many people who jump into things that they aren't ready for and it always ends ugly.
thats what I think anyway.
Life is pain, Highness. Anyone who says differently is selling something. |
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Homers_pet_monkey
= Official forum monkey =
United Kingdom
17125 Posts |
Posted - 04/18/2005 : 12:15:40
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quote: Originally posted by starmekitten
you're not over your ex, and that causes all sorts of trouble, you say it's not substitution but you'll be replacing one girl with another before getting over the first one and that getting over it thing won't magically happen because you're seeing someone new.
From my own experience of seeing someone who wasn't over their "big relationship" it messes things up and you'll end up twice as confused, especially if she ends up going away, you'll be worse off than when you started.
I honestly think time for people to sort their directions out in their head alone does them good, post break-up sometimes for years the loneliness can be intense and it's not just not being with anyone it's not being with someone as well. Until that goes away (and it does) until you stop measuring people against that one (and that happens too) and until you stop wanting it so bad (and you will) I don't think anyone is ready. I know too many people who jump into things that they aren't ready for and it always ends ugly.
thats what I think anyway.
Life is pain, Highness. Anyone who says differently is selling something.
Shit, where are those razors?
Seriously, it's been years now, I have to try again sometime, and I will never find a better girl than this one.
Thanks for listening by the way.
“Did I leave the gas on? No! I’m – no – I’m a fucking squirrel!”
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ElevatorLady
= Cult of Ray =
385 Posts |
Posted - 04/18/2005 : 13:13:12
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If I may add, and I'm sure Tre is the much wiser woman here, but:
"getting over it thing won't magically happen because you're seeing someone new" That may not necessarily be true. I believe seeing someone new might help. It might help you see that there is life elsewhere.
"especially if she ends up going away, you'll be worse off than when you started" On the other hand, this is very true. But such is life – full of gambles. If you don't try you'll never know (be prepared though, it might be very painful).
"time for people to sort their directions out in their head alone does them good" Very true.
But you can't wait forever. If it's already been years, Homers, maybe it would be good for you to find something to help you snap out of it. Dunno. Hope it ends well for you, one way or another….
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starmekitten
-= Forum Pistolera =-
United Kingdom
6370 Posts |
Posted - 04/18/2005 : 13:18:33
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I'm not so wise lady (I just know what a mushy idiot that one is)
Life is pain, Highness. Anyone who says differently is selling something. |
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Surfer Rosa
> Teenager of the Year <
4209 Posts |
Posted - 04/18/2005 : 13:32:48
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Finding out that the horse that you meant to back and totally forgot (despite the reminder from Kathryn in the answer a question and ask one thread) came in third today.
The only way to get rid of temptation is to yield to it. |
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Homers_pet_monkey
= Official forum monkey =
United Kingdom
17125 Posts |
Posted - 04/18/2005 : 13:35:38
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Thanks EL. I am gonna go for it.
“Did I leave the gas on? No! I’m – no – I’m a fucking squirrel!”
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kathryn
~ Selkie Bride ~
Belgium
15320 Posts |
Posted - 04/18/2005 : 14:58:50
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Something that makes me feel bad: Never truly getting over my ex, eventho I'm the one who broke us up and eventho I have a wonderful husband. Shit happens.
Another thing that makes me feel bad: telling a friend to bet on a losing horse. (Sorry, Surfer!)
I still believe in the excellent joy of the Catholics |
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Homers_pet_monkey
= Official forum monkey =
United Kingdom
17125 Posts |
Posted - 04/18/2005 : 15:01:15
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I am not sure again now.
I joined the secret forum, and all I got was this lousy secret
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floop
= Wannabe Volunteer =
Mexico
15297 Posts |
Posted - 04/18/2005 : 15:01:53
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quote: Originally posted by kathryn
Something that makes me feel bad: Never truly getting over my ex, eventho I'm the one who broke us up and eventho I have a wonderful husband. Shit happens.
hope he doesn't read the forum..
things that make me feel bad:
the idea that i might never get over my ex |
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zub_the_goat
= Cult of Ray =
United Kingdom
639 Posts |
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Posted - 04/18/2005 : 15:11:54
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A thing that makes me feel bad is the sensation that I get after eating PORK.
I feel like a completely different person |
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floop
= Wannabe Volunteer =
Mexico
15297 Posts |
Posted - 04/18/2005 : 15:13:43
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i feel bad when i go to a vegitarian friends house for dinner and they say, "we're having tofu" |
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Cheeseman1000
>> Denizen of the Citizens Band <<
Iceland
8201 Posts |
Posted - 04/18/2005 : 15:15:46
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But the little piggies! They're offering themselves to you!
Things that make me feel bad: I'm loser with no immediate prospects of a girlfriend. Explain to me my general chipperness.
I'm like a lost snail in the night. |
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Posted - 04/18/2005 : 15:19:51
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Another thing that makes me feel bad, listening Pork eaters speaking about the delicious vegetarian meals that they never had.
I feel like a completely different person |
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kathryn
~ Selkie Bride ~
Belgium
15320 Posts |
Posted - 04/18/2005 : 15:19:59
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More things to feel bad about, all within the last three minutes:
Finding out my sfc has been wooing a forum member who is not me!!!!!!!!
Finding out I have inadvertantly offended a friend (offending someone on purpose is always a pleasure).
floop, to quote George Constanza, "It's complicated." You never really get over someone you've been in love with. But my husband wouldn't be hurt if he read this and, btw, he does check out the forum, where he is a registered user.
Cheesey, you are a sweetiepie and all will work out.
Homers, find her and ask her out.
I still believe in the excellent joy of the Catholics |
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floop
= Wannabe Volunteer =
Mexico
15297 Posts |
Posted - 04/18/2005 : 15:21:22
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quote: Originally posted by kathryn btw, he does check out the forum, where he is a registered user.
fartbone? |
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Cheeseman1000
>> Denizen of the Citizens Band <<
Iceland
8201 Posts |
Posted - 04/18/2005 : 15:23:54
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quote: Originally posted by kathryn
Cheesey, you are a sweetiepie and all will work out.
Ah well, very nice of you to say, but it doesn't explain why I'm not an emotionally-crippled, bitter singleton. Like, say, speedy.
I'm like a lost snail in the night. |
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speedy_m
= Frankofile =
Canada
3581 Posts |
Posted - 04/18/2005 : 15:26:08
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quote: Originally posted by Cheeseman1000
quote: Originally posted by kathryn
Cheesey, you are a sweetiepie and all will work out.
Ah well, very nice of you to say, but it doesn't explain why I'm not an emotionally-crippled, bitter singleton. Like, say, speedy.
I'm like a lost snail in the night.
Well, this is just the best day of my life.
The worst mistakes make the best regrets. |
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floop
= Wannabe Volunteer =
Mexico
15297 Posts |
Posted - 04/18/2005 : 15:27:05
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speedy doesn't seem bitter to me.
like, say, fartbone |
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kathryn
~ Selkie Bride ~
Belgium
15320 Posts |
Posted - 04/18/2005 : 15:28:24
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I'm an emotionally crippled moron yet also happily paired off. One doesn't equate or negate the other.
I still believe in the excellent joy of the Catholics |
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speedy_m
= Frankofile =
Canada
3581 Posts |
Posted - 04/18/2005 : 15:29:33
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quote: Originally posted by floop
speedy doesn't seem bitter to me.
like, say, fartbone
That is the nicest thing anyone has ever said to (about) me. Thanks.
The worst mistakes make the best regrets. |
Edited by - speedy_m on 04/18/2005 15:29:57 |
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floop
= Wannabe Volunteer =
Mexico
15297 Posts |
Posted - 04/18/2005 : 15:30:32
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quote: Originally posted by speedy_m
quote: Originally posted by floop
speedy doesn't seem bitter to me.
like, say, fartbone
That is the nicest thing anyone has ever said to (about) me. Thanks.
The worst mistakes make the best regrets.
your welcome.. there will be a small service charge |
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speedy_m
= Frankofile =
Canada
3581 Posts |
Posted - 04/18/2005 : 15:31:24
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Well, I usually only pay to have women talk to me...
The worst mistakes make the best regrets. |
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kathryn
~ Selkie Bride ~
Belgium
15320 Posts |
Posted - 04/18/2005 : 18:10:36
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Wearing too-tight sneakers* while running makes me feel bad.(*trainers to you Brit types)
I still believe in the excellent joy of the Catholics |
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Homers_pet_monkey
= Official forum monkey =
United Kingdom
17125 Posts |
Posted - 04/19/2005 : 06:05:05
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quote: Originally posted by floop
quote: Originally posted by kathryn
Something that makes me feel bad: Never truly getting over my ex, eventho I'm the one who broke us up and eventho I have a wonderful husband. Shit happens.
things that make me feel bad:
the idea that i might never get over my ex
I knew we had a lot in common! Wanna go for a Mexican and talk about our pain? I'll come to you.
Thanks Zub, I think I am gonna bide my time on this one now. I don't think phoning her at work is gonna get an honest answer. I don't want her saying yes if she doesn't mean it.
I joined the secret forum, and all I got was this lousy secret
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Edited by - Homers_pet_monkey on 04/19/2005 06:07:38 |
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kathryn
~ Selkie Bride ~
Belgium
15320 Posts |
Posted - 04/19/2005 : 07:44:40
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Yeah, let's meet at El Cid in L.A. We can drown our sorrows in enchilladas and Coronas while spying on the celebrity b-day bashes.
I still believe in the excellent joy of the Catholics |
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kathryn
~ Selkie Bride ~
Belgium
15320 Posts |
Posted - 04/19/2005 : 07:51:31
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Yeah, let's meet at El Cid in L.A. We can drown our sorrows in enchilladas and Coronas while spying on the celebrity b-day bashes.
I still believe in the excellent joy of the Catholics |
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PixieSteve
> Teenager of the Year <
Poland
4698 Posts |
Posted - 04/19/2005 : 10:06:11
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quote: Originally posted by kathryn
You know what, Whore? I am not arguing. I started a thread. Pixiesteve once again took a shot at me. Then ObfByWill echoed him. I have no idea what is going on, I'm just trying to be my usual, helpful self.
I still believe in the excellent joy of the Catholics
you made me happy because you finally acknowledged my existance THANK YOU! sorry for being mean. my problem with you is probably a result of a problem with myself.
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Edited by - PixieSteve on 04/19/2005 10:07:11 |
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Carolynanna
>> Denizen of the Citizens Band <<
Canada
6556 Posts |
Posted - 04/19/2005 : 10:08:34
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I think PixieSteve is slightly schizophrenic.
__________ This is the war and not the warning. |
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PixieSteve
> Teenager of the Year <
Poland
4698 Posts |
Posted - 04/19/2005 : 10:12:57
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i don't think so. probably a bit weird, but i've covered schizophrenia in psychology and i don't think i have any of the symptoms...
isn't that right, steve?
although i should add that schizophrenia has nothing to do with split personalities.
Oh let it linger |
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starmekitten
-= Forum Pistolera =-
United Kingdom
6370 Posts |
Posted - 04/19/2005 : 10:14:43
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tourettes?
Life is pain, Highness. Anyone who says differently is selling something. |
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