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| starmekitten |
Posted - 04/03/2005 : 17:12:49
I've just been discussing this and was asked if I thought everyone had one. I didn't know hence....
Is this a general universal phenomenon? or is it restricted to the few? We've seen it mentioned everywhere by several people and there are times I have fallen victim to this phenomenon myself, I'll confess!
I'll confess mind, but I won't name names.
It's quite interestng because in all likeliness these people you have never met, maybe will never meet so it's not like the usual laws of attraction is it. I say attraction but what I mean is sometimes there is something about a persons comments in a post that draws you to them and makes you shall we say more interested in what they have to say. Assuming everyone is being them true selves, which is a big assumption I know, (although I suspect it's harder to mask yourself asides from occasionally bigging oneself up than you'd think it is) the secret forum crush phenomenon is largely personality based. Although I guess now most people know what everyone else looks like so maybe that does play a part.
But, is the secret forum crush more than that, by this I mean when you log on and read through the threads are there those threads you will go to first because you see someone you admire in general (you might think they are particularly witty or funny or clever in a non heart fluttery way) has made them or has posted last in them, and will you be turned off some threads because of the opposite reason, i.e. someone you think is a prat has written in it.
So, would you admit to have at one time having a totally harmless little secret forum crush in some guise or other?
Or do you not believe in this phenomenon.
 I joined the cult of Derek/ because Dereks don't run |
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| VoVat |
Posted - 05/04/2005 : 14:58:51
quote:
P.S. I like the signature, VoVat.
Thanks.
I was all out of luck, like a duck that died. I was all out of juice, like a moose denied. |
| Homers_pet_monkey |
Posted - 05/04/2005 : 05:35:41
Remi Moses? (ask your brothers)
I joined the secret forum, and all I got was this lousy secret
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| starmekitten |
Posted - 05/04/2005 : 01:00:43
my father is moses you know
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| whoreatthedoor |
Posted - 05/04/2005 : 00:28:20
There was something about a burning bush in the old testament, I guess.
El amor es la distancia más larga entre un punto y otro |
| Homers_pet_monkey |
Posted - 05/03/2005 : 11:07:41
quote:
Originally posted by starmekitten
OK, I'll whisper... Just going to go get some ice for my burning bush
By the way... did you decide if you're coming to portugal yet?
( )
 when there's no more room in hell, the dead will walk the earth
There she goes with her burning bush again.
I joined the secret forum, and all I got was this lousy secret
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| PixieSteve |
Posted - 05/03/2005 : 10:35:33
hey my secret crush is cult of frank.
 Oh let it linger |
| starmekitten |
Posted - 05/03/2005 : 10:33:32
editing is worse for sure
would have responded earlier but I had an e mail to send that feelingless Whore and Rita is trying to marry me off, she's determined to be a bridesmaid soon, she doesn't care who to I think.
when there's no more room in hell, the dead will walk the earth |
| PixieSteve |
Posted - 05/03/2005 : 10:29:59
what? i was talking to kitten, she posted before me but it went by the time i posted. i'm not gonna live in fear when i make a post.
Oh let it linger |
| whoreatthedoor |
Posted - 05/03/2005 : 10:03:29
Don't start it again, please.
El amor es la distancia más larga entre un punto y otro |
| PixieSteve |
Posted - 05/03/2005 : 09:48:39
quote:
Originally posted by whoreatthedoor
I should change it, because I'm a whore with no feelings.
El amor es la distancia más larga entre un punto y otro
never felt a cock?
[kitten - what's worse than editting - deleting ]
Oh let it linger |
| whoreatthedoor |
Posted - 05/03/2005 : 09:12:33
I should change it, because I'm a whore with no feelings.
El amor es la distancia más larga entre un punto y otro |
| n/a |
Posted - 05/03/2005 : 09:04:54
quote:
Originally posted by whoreatthedoor
Oh, no! No voyeurs allowed!
[But if you want to join us...]
El amor es la distancia más larga entre un punto y otro
What do you mean???
p.s. your new sig is lovely
When you free yourself from the chance of a lifetime
You can be anyone they told you to
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| whoreatthedoor |
Posted - 05/03/2005 : 09:02:43
I still don't get the irony.
El amor es la distancia más larga entre un punto y otro |
| starmekitten |
Posted - 05/03/2005 : 08:57:48
quote:
Originally posted by VoVat in another thread
quote:
you boys are such whores!
Except for whoreatthedoor. His screen name is totally ironic.
I was all out of luck, like a duck that died. I was all out of juice, like a moose denied.
HA!
when there's no more room in hell, the dead will walk the earth |
| whoreatthedoor |
Posted - 05/03/2005 : 08:51:51
Oh, no! No voyeurs allowed!
[But if you want to join us...]
El amor es la distancia más larga entre un punto y otro |
| Acantha |
Posted - 05/03/2005 : 07:24:26
hmmm, can we watch??? |
| n/a |
Posted - 05/03/2005 : 05:54:09
well, if he comes, I already can see that I might have to go away, because you two together here...
When you free yourself from the chance of a lifetime
You can be anyone they told you to
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| starmekitten |
Posted - 05/03/2005 : 05:47:22
OK, I'll whisper... Just going to go get some ice for my burning blush
By the way... did you decide if you're coming to portugal yet?
()
when there's no more room in hell, the dead will walk the earth |
| n/a |
Posted - 05/03/2005 : 05:46:55
You 2 can't hide your love anymore, so stop it!
When you free yourself from the chance of a lifetime
You can be anyone they told you to
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| whoreatthedoor |
Posted - 05/03/2005 : 05:42:07
Shhhh... or someone will know you're my forum crush.
El amor es la distancia más larga entre un punto y otro |
| starmekitten |
Posted - 05/03/2005 : 05:24:14
My heart is fixed and open for business Xavi, so,
how you doin'?
when there's no more room in hell, the dead will walk the earth |
| whoreatthedoor |
Posted - 05/03/2005 : 05:20:03
AHA! So there are amazing news in kitten's heart. HA!
El amor es la distancia más larga entre un punto y otro |
| starmekitten |
Posted - 05/03/2005 : 05:12:49
thats the spirit, if at first you don't succeed, stalk! :P
I fell in love with a guy on the tram on saturday, got over it as soon as I got to my stop though, fickle fickle heart.
when there's no more room in hell, the dead will walk the earth |
| Acantha |
Posted - 05/03/2005 : 03:27:35
Back on topic.....I think crushes are indiscriminate!But the ones on forums are mainly personality based on my humble opinion. I've had a massive crush on my ex boyfriend's best friend for, oh, three years now! I was on the verge of telling him how I felt so many times only to chicken out....now the b****** has got himself a girlfriend! gaaaah! I'm lurking.....waiting.....oh yes, he will be mine.... |
| prozacrat |
Posted - 05/02/2005 : 19:53:18
quote:
Originally posted by kathryn
So, Prozacrat, are you in charge of this fb.net project?
Do Surfer and I give you our cash?
 I still believe in the excellent joy of the Catholics
Well, you can give me your cash, but I don't promise to give you anything in return. I don't particularly remember offering to actually head up such an endeavour. I don't think I can squeeze it in my schedule right now.
Pa. |
| kathryn |
Posted - 05/02/2005 : 14:08:37
quote:
Originally posted by rita
Crushes are good because of that Kathryn, you can have as much as you want.
When you free yourself from the chance of a lifetime
You can be anyone they told you to
Where? Where?
I still believe in the excellent joy of the Catholics |
| n/a |
Posted - 05/02/2005 : 13:59:46
Oh Surfer, you know that I still love you
When you free yourself from the chance of a lifetime
You can be anyone they told you to
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| Surfer Rosa |
Posted - 05/02/2005 : 13:58:25
quote:
Originally posted by rita
And I don't have my crushes anymore, I got rid of my girls crushes!
When you free yourself from the chance of a lifetime
You can be anyone they told you to
Maybe that's why I feel so empty inside.
The only way to get rid of temptation is to yield to it. |
| n/a |
Posted - 05/02/2005 : 13:57:18
Crushes are good because of that Kathryn, you can have as much as you want.
And why does it sucks?
When you free yourself from the chance of a lifetime
You can be anyone they told you to
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| kathryn |
Posted - 05/02/2005 : 13:55:05
I only have a single boy crush, Rita, you girl-crazy thang!
And it is totally and devastatingly unrequited. And it sucks.
I still believe in the excellent joy of the Catholics |
| n/a |
Posted - 05/02/2005 : 13:53:17
And I don't have my crushes anymore, I got rid of my girls crushes!
When you free yourself from the chance of a lifetime
You can be anyone they told you to
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| Surfer Rosa |
Posted - 05/02/2005 : 13:51:40
Can I just say yet again that I'm really not good with this unrequitted thing and in fact I'm starting to think that it is possibly sending me into some kind of decline.
The only way to get rid of temptation is to yield to it. |
| kathryn |
Posted - 05/02/2005 : 13:32:22
So, Prozacrat, are you in charge of this fb.net project?
Do Surfer and I give you our cash?
I still believe in the excellent joy of the Catholics |
| Surfer Rosa |
Posted - 05/02/2005 : 13:29:28
I think I could do with one over here too please.
The only way to get rid of temptation is to yield to it. |
| kathryn |
Posted - 05/02/2005 : 13:27:01
How do I order my button? Or T? Either's good.
I still believe in the excellent joy of the Catholics |
